I may be looking for a submissive, but I'm not looking for just any submissive. I need a partner who can truly see me, and see all of me. So often, I'll be approached by those who can see that I'm looking for a real relationship and not just sex, or who appreciate my emotional maturity and stability, or my intelligence, or even just how tall I am. But, in truth, none of those really get to the core of who I am.

I can be very silly and goofy at times. I make dumb jokes. I like tabletop RPGs, video games, and anime, just as much as classic cinema, live theater, and books. And I need a partner who can connect with me on both levels. Someone who would enjoy playing Dungeons and Dragons, but who would also enjoy watching the 1958 classic, Auntie Mame. And presumably you have your own favorite games and movies, etc., and I'd love to find out what they are.

On the sexual end of things, I enjoy teasing, psychological play, praise, erotic hypnosis, free use, light bondage, and I have a pretty serious breeding kink. While I'm down for some light impact play or choking, I don't really get into sadism or degradation, though I do sometimes enjoy getting my sub a little flustered now and then. My style can be a bit mischievous, and I often find myself laughing at my partner's frustrated reactions as I tease them, like some sort of comic book villain. In any event, I've been at this for about fifteen years, so I'd like to believe I've gotten pretty good at it.

To get to the boring boilerplate stuff, I also need my partner to be close to my age (30 preferred), who wants kids (but doesn't yet have them), who doesn't touch nicotine (I'd say "non-smoker" but I don't mind if you're into pot; it's legal where I am), and who is pretty firmly left-wing (trans rights, ACAB, eat the rich). Depending on where you live, relocation may not be an issue (I'm planning to escape Arizona as soon as I can, myself, so if you live in a blue state, you may not need to worry about moving), and while I don't mind sharing pics to determine physical attraction, I'm not going to push for anything until a partner is ready, because I'm well aware of the greater risks women face when it comes to photos.

Anyway, if all this has you curious, feel free to message me or send a chat request. There are plenty of other posts I've made in this subreddit that you can peruse through my profile, as well, if you'd like more detailed info. To ensure you've read thoroughly, as part of your introduction, I'd like you to tell me about a website on which you wasted a lot of time when you were younger. Thank you very much for reading, and have a lovely day.