Hey there! Welcome to my post.
**Note: I am trying bolding certain words to help make it easier to skim, not sure how I like it yet.
Who Are You?
You're a Submissive, Little, Cuckcake, Cuckquean, Lesbian couple, and/or Slave looking for structure, rules, fun, friendship, and/or encouragement. You enjoy traveling, affection, and you're kinky. You're not overweight or underweight. You put effort into communication (it's tough, so no pressure), you're honest, and you're not mean. You're not perfect, and that’s okay—nobody is. You make mistakes like the best of them. :P
My Views on the Lifestyle
I see BDSM dynamics as guidelines that we customize to fit us best. It's a normal, healthy relationship with extra communication and trust. Submission isn’t automatic; the Submissive chooses her Dom and chooses to submit. She creates the playground, and the Dom plays in it.
I believe it's important for both partners to maintain their own interests, friendships, and hobbies. It keeps the relationship balanced and healthy. Above all, honesty is key. A Submissive should never feel pressured to endure something she's uncomfortable with just to please her Dom. Open communication always comes first.
And just to throw this out there, I’m convinced the whole 'Brat Tamer' title is just a clever trick Brats use to make people think they can actually be tamed.
About Me
I’m a 34-year-old Daddy Dom Sadist with one Cuckquean Submissive.
- Physical: 6 feet tall, longish black hair, brown eyes, beard.
- Personality: Sarcastic, affectionate, caring, curious, analytical, empathetic, kinky, and with a high sex drive.
- Interests: Problem-solving, giving attention, gaming, binge-watching shows, joking around, traveling, hanging with friends, and writing.
- Experience: Over 10 years as a Dom—still learning, still growing, still not perfect.
When I’m mad, upset, or frustrated, I don’t do the silent treatment. Instead, I’ll remind you that I care about you and ask for alone time to process and relax. I love helping my subs achieve their goals and being comfortable in their own skin. I like being a hype man.
I’m smart in some areas but a total dumbass in others :P. I do a lot of self-reflection and constantly work on bettering myself. I’m poly, but I want to be the only Dom in my poly group.
Deal Breakers
There must be mutual attraction. So at some point, we’ll need to exchange photos.
Kinks (You Don't Need to Share Them All)
- Roleplay: Rape/CNC, Cheating, Blackmail, Breeding, Lesbian Conversion, Gender Betrayal, Bullying, Incest, and probably more.
- Physical Play: Temporary marks/bruises, Breath play, Inflicting pain/tickling.
- Control & Power Exchange: TPE, Training, Orgasm denial.
- Public & Semi-Public Play: Secret public with toys, Fucking while clothed.
- Psychological Play: Degradation, Trauma reassurance during sex.
- Other: Sexting.
There’s more, but I’ll leave it at that for now. What are some of your kinks?
If you’re curious and want to know more, send me a DM. 😉
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