It's so hard to describe that perfect fit between two people. But when it happens, it's absolutely magical, unstoppable, and undeniable.

I'm looking for that perfect to be so much more than something casual. I want something real ... something with emotional depth ... with vulnerability and passion.

Who am I?

A 51 year old Astronomy Professor. But that's just my day job. My life mission is to help save the world! I have a lot of different research projects going on to do this - and I'm serious - things that could impact billions of people. (I'm a big fan of Peter Diamandis and his work on how to help humanity.)

Aside from my life mission, I very much enjoy expanding myself as a human being, and seeing how I can connect with others. Doing this ranges from different types of activities and things to learn (stand up comedy and improv were the most recent ... next up I plan to take jujitsu, acting classes, and dance lessons), to learning more about how to be a better person and partner (I'm a big fan of Heidi Priebe on YouTube!).

I also love new experiences, both outside and inside the bedroom. I enjoy traveling a lot (went to Italy, Greece, and Alaska last year, and I'm in Australia as I'm writing this.) I enjoy learning new things, and intellectually stimulating conversation (why CAN'T the world be saved? Are there questions beyond human cognition, and how would we know? Can science advance to the point that it can predict whole societies and how they evolve, thereby giving us a chance to avert wars and oppressive regimes? ... this is the kind of stuff I love to banter about)

Inside the bedroom, I tend to be strongly dominant. I like my partner to feel like she "belongs" to me. This will resonate with the right woman, and she will just be able to sense what I mean. I'm also very open, kinky, and have had ENM experiences before - and would love to explore this safely with my lady.

Physically, I'm white, 6'3, 215 lbs, with short brown hair and eyes (and yes, I have to dye my hair ... I *am* 51! :-) )

So who would you be?

Growing, learning, wanting to travel the world, kinky, kind, caring, and understanding of the reality that I'm kind of odd, in the sense that I normally abhor the mundane. I'm probably not the guy to spend time window shopping a lot, or just goofing off. But I *am* the guy that, when I am focused on you, I am focused on YOU. You'll feel like the center of my Universe, and my rock. My companion, partner, lover, lady, confidant, and inspiration. And you'll know that I'm never going to cheat on you, never going to lie to you, and while I want to save the whole world, in some ways my whole world will be YOU.

If the right woman is reading this, she'll know. This will connect with her at a meaningful level, and she'll understand that she is meant for me, and I am meant for her. If that's you, I'd love to hear from you!