I'm' a Soft Dom, but let’s make one thing clear—I lead with understanding, respect, and confidence. I’m not the type to bark orders just for the sake of control. Instead, I read you, sensing when you need a firm hand, when to tease the edge of your limits, and when to simply hold you close.
Who I Am:
6’4", Fit, Professional, In the process of divorce
A natural leader with a high EQ, knowing when to push and when to comfort
Passionate about music (jazz, funk, rock), deep conversations, and sensory experiences
Based Chicago but open to connections beyond
What I’m Looking For:
A woman who craves intellectual and sensual chemistry in equal measure
Someone fit/healthy who values both mental and physical connection
Open to exploring dynamics where respect, pleasure, and trust come first
Loves music, listening and playing, enjoys a good conversation, and isn’t afraid to let go in the right hands
What You Can Expect:
A Soft Dom approach: I lead, but I listen. I’ll push, but I’ll read you first. It’s about connection, control, and deep pleasure.
Privacy and discretion: No face pic here, but I’ll share once we build trust.
A no-pressure first meet: Let’s grab a coffee, take a walk, or meet somewhere we can make eye contact and see where the energy takes us.
If this resonates, let’s talk. Let’s make this week interesting.
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