Disclaimer: I have a vetting period and will not engage sexually before it has been finished

I want a serious submissive, as I said in the title. That, to me, means someone who is actually looking for a dynamic and not just sex. It is someone who intends to commit themselves to the process of creating and nurturing a dynamic that is beneficial and satisfying to both parties. I consider myself serious in this regard as well.

I have been looking on and off on FetLife for some time and got nowhere for very long. I'm hoping that a fresh platform to place ads on will yield a different, if not better result.

I mention the long search to say that I've spent the time dealing with what I don't want to know what I do.

I'm after someone open-minded, honest, trustworthy, and consistently communicative. I want to be able to at least talk about various kinks and ideas, even if they are not implemented. I want to get honest and thoughtful responses to questions I pose so that I can better get to know you and use that against you in the best way. I expect to be able to trust you to be honest and open, to tell me that something is wrong, and to approach me with each and every concern you have.

As I'm a service Top most kinks are negotiable. The following are not:

• anal play
• cum play
• tasks (both sexual and nonsexual)
• orgasm control and denial

The above qualities and kinks are the only ones I require; all else can be forgotten or used as long as they don't interfere with my limits which are listed below.

• ageplay
• race play
• watersports
• scat
• blood play
• bestiality
• lolita and anything to do with it

As for the vanilla aspect of things, I'm an avid writer working on both a homebrew Dungeons and Dragons campaign and a world for me to play in when it comes to short stories and ideas. I'm a planner and am very Type-A, something that comes out in my dynamics as I plot and plan the best way to learn together, grow together, and bond.

Beyond writing I'm a fan of music and art (though who isn't), handheld video games, learning through literature, and making friends with my new cat.

If you're interested in getting to know each other to see if we could be a good match for this I encourage you to reach out; I would love to take the chance to get to know you and truly see how compatible we are.