Hey, 27 year old, male, switch, here. Short physical description is: White, 5’9/177cm, dad bod but working on it, blonde-ish, blue green eyes etc.
Hoping to find someone femme here who I can form a connection/dynamic with. Ideally you are also a switch or at least don’t mind that as your sub/dom, that I still have those other desires. But I’m totally happy just domming someone and breaking them down, or receiving the same treatment as a sub lol.
My main desire at the moment is to have someone to share stories and kinks and play while also being our own people. Kind of like a partners in crime dynamic where we can talk about our dirty thoughts and tell each other about anything we get up to, while not being strictly attached. To use real dating terms maybe an open poly or ethically non monogamous vibe. I want to be friends or at least some casual convos besides just hitting each other up to get off. Hopefully we can grow and explore with each other in a relaxed, non judgey environment.
Wouldn’t mind it getting more serious, but think it can be silly to jump straight into that in a reddit post, before we actually get to know each other.
Vanilla Me: Little nerdy, well adjusted introvert, music lover, foodie, emotionally mature, yapper.
Kinks: Mental domination, orgasm control, some ddlg and mdlb vibes, petplay, aftercare, rope bondage, voyeurism (cuckolding/cuckquean included), just being a slut, and MORE. Definitely open to match your kinks and energy too.
If you connected to anything in this post or feel like we have some traits in common I’d love to hear from you through a chat or dm! I’m open and happy to meet new people so we don’t have to be perfect as long as we both have fun 😊
Hope to hear from you, Cole
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