hi!

i've posted here before, but then got really nervous! i'm still nervous if we're being honest so pls be patient with me 😥

what i'm looking for!

• someone gentle, but sadistic
• kind, patient, and understanding
• i do like people taller than me (i'm 5’7”!) and older than me (i'm 26!)
• really like guys on the thin, average, lean, or muscular side!
• i love tattoos (lots and lots) and beards
• someone who doesn't mind me asking a lot of questions, who doesn't mind sending/receiving voice notes, and who doesn't mind sending pictures and vids! (i like sending them too, but im nervous and shy so itll take some time for me to build up trust to that)
• someone in the CST timezone? but i love finding out abt other places so if youre somewhere else thats okay too ❤️
• someone who doesn't mind sharing; this is really important to me! i currently have a mentor Dom and i want to explore and have adventures, so i'm wanting to talk and connect with more than one person! 
• someone politically left (by american standards)
• someone who doesnt mind hopeless romantic daydreams
• ultimately, someone to connect with ❤️

expectations for first interactions!

• im really shy! and nervous! and anxious! like all the time! so even if we connect, itll take some time for me to build up enough trust to send you pics and stuff! but im a hypocrite and i do love seeing who im talking to!
• i want to build a connection with someone, so while i want to talk abt anything and everything and nothing all at once (including kink), i dont want to play right away with someone
• please dont call me pet names in the first few messages either! (i do love pet names, i just want them to mean something!)

what i'm like!

physically:

• pale skin, blue eyes, brown hair in a shaggy pixie cut (though i need to get it trimmed!)
• a lil chubby!
• i have an eyebrow piercing & a nose piercing, and a massive tattoo over my thigh & hip
• my style is usually alternative stuff! or comfy, oversized hoodies, and my favorite shoes are doc marten boots

non-kink:

• art, both traditional and digital
• crochet
• bugs
• reading & writing
• game development 
• music (live & listening (you should ask me what my total minutes listened to was on spotify wrapped this year))
• movies (silly movies & good movies & bad movies & documentaries abt cults and space and oceans)
• i have a really, really bad anxiety problem
• sometimes i'm really quiet, but sometimes i'm really talkative! like reallyreallyreally talkative 🫠

kink:

• i love praise, pain, and maybe being adored? and made to feel wanted?
• im really new, so theres lots of things i want to try ❤️ like bondage, CNC with the right person, free-use, somnophilia
• im a lil bit of a brat sometimes, and a lil bit of a switch (but my switchiness is really rare!)
• my limits are bathroom stuff, illegal stuff, permanent harm, belts, and degradation based on my self worth. i really don't like anal stuff either, but i can make small exceptions for the right person ❤️

anyway!! this is really long! im sorry!

i hope youre having a good day wherever you are ❤️