Hello wonderful people reading this, I hope you are all having an amazing day. I am Nick, 34, I live in Italy. I'm a university researcher, but don't worry, I'm not a boring, dusty professor! People tend to describe me as well-educated, respectful and gentle person, I hope I'm not too arrogant if I consider this a fitting description. I have a successful career and an happy life, yet I lack the presence of a Dominant partner in my existence.
Let me be clear, I'm not looking for a kink-dispenser or cheap sexual gratification, I'm too old to believe in a porn fantasy. What I desire is a genuine connection, friendship, and then, if we click, who knows where things will lead? Ideally my ultimate goal would be a full FLR relationship, but that's a jump in the future, let's start slow.
So, who's the person behind the kink? I have a PhD and I work both in mathematics and philosophy. I have plenty of hobbies, I will list the main ones. I love music (I know, not very informative, everyone likes music), especially classical, but I like to explore new genres. I play the guitar and, from time to time, I try to experiment with new instruments. I practice swing dance. About my readings, lately I've focused mostly on history and geopolitics books. I have a nerdy side as a long-time game master of RPGs.
About my kinky side, I am a submissive at heart, I have always been, and through the years I have fully embraced my natural tendency. I am attracted to women with strong personalities, who are confident and know what they want. That is why I'm looking for a Dominant partner to own me, but let me be precise, I'm not a passive partner in a relationship, not at all, I want to help and be useful for my Domme, I want to make her life as wonderful as I can, serving and loving her. I believe that the point of any relationship (kinky or vanilla) is for each partner to help the other improve and live their life to the best of their possibilities.
About my appearance, I'm 6'0'' tall, dark haired, slim (I'm fine with sending a photo verification). I don't make any kink list, because I think it is more important to find the right alchemy with a friendly conversation first. Moreover, I believe that whatever the sub should desire is just his Domme's happiness, so why making a list anyway?
Thank you for taking the time to read my entire message.
Have a great day,
Nick
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