Hi y’all! I’m looking for someone that’s interested in a long-term relationship with compatible kinks. There’s a few that I’m interested in trying and a few that I know are hard limits. I’m also open to exploring, but it’d obviously be something that we would need to talk through and research. I definitely want to have an established relationship with a solid level of trust before we start integrating in kink.
About Me: - Physically, I’m 5’5”, Hispanic (lighter complected than most but not white), and have a cute chubby figure. I also have mid-length wavy brown hair, brown eyes, and wear glasses! - Personality wise, I try my best to be as kind, thoughtful, and caring as I can, but I’m also very shy. I also try to make sure that I’m reliable and dependable because I want people to feel like they could come to me if they ever needed help - I can also be pretty sarcastic and teasing, though (but lovingly, I swear!) I’m pretty goofy and weird, too 😂 - I consider myself more of an ambivert that leans introverted? I like meeting people, but I definitely run on a limited social battery. Which also means that I’ll need ‘me time’ every now and then - I would definitely say that I could ramble on and on about my interests or latest hyperfixation if you let me, but I’m a great listener, too! - I’m also a first year college student studying a counseling related major and I’m learning ASL! - I enjoy music, being outside, reading, and writing. I also do some amateur voice acting, singing, and freelance writing! - Relationship wise, I’m big on physical affection, words on affirmation, and acts of service. I always want to make sure my partner feels cared for and loved - Soft intimacy and domesticity is literally top tier for me. Like, cuddling, holding hands, cooking together, playing video games together, all the cute stuff. In a perfect world, I would always be touching my guy in some way - I also love playing with my guy’s hair as much as I love my hair getting played with, and I’m definitely up to initiating and pampering him just as he would do with me. I’m big on reciprocating effort! - I am definitely submissive, specifically leaning towards being a service/obedient sub - Communication is also huge for me. It’s something I’m working on personally, as I’m always making personal improvements, but I also want to make sure that we’d both be happy. If we weren’t happy, then I’d hope that we were comfortable enough with each other to talk it out and work to be better
I’ll start with dealbreakers and hard limits: - I am very submissive, so you must be a dom - Cannot smoke (nicotine or otherwise) and cannot do drugs - Needs to be able to treat me like a priority once we’re dating. I don’t expect you to place me as the number one priority all the time, but I don’t want to feel like you’re constantly putting me off for something else. It’s different if you’re busy - I like certain levels of possessiveness and obsessiveness once a relationship has been established, but only if it has been talked about up front and we’ve established boundaries on that behavior (however, this is not necessarily a ‘must have’, the dealbreaker is that it must be discussed) - Hard limits: Humiliation, degradation, voyeurism, exhibitionism, TPE, age play, anal, anything illegal, and the usual taboos
Preferences and Interested Kinks: - A man, ideally between 21-29, but if you’re outside that range and think we’re compatible feel free to send me message! I also prefer someone in the US, but I am open to anywhere - Protective, kind, goofy, nerdy, loyal, respectful, reliable, romantic, and loving are a couple of traits that I look for/prefer in a partner - I would also want someone who isn’t afraid to be silly and goofy with me, but can be serious when the situation calls for it - I prefer someone who doesn’t drink, but drinking occasionally or in moderation is fine - When it comes to physical preferences, I’m really just into what I’m into? I’ve been attracted to guys of all sorts of different body shapes, but generally not super skinny or very overweight. Physical attraction is important to be though, so please be willing to exchange photos eventually please - I do have a size kink and enjoy feeling smaller than my partner, so at least a two inch height difference, so 5’7” or taller, but I would prefer taller - I’m looking for a dom that leans more towards a soft dom or pleasure dom, but I’m open minded - Kinks that I’m interested in trying (or things I enjoy): biting/marking (receiving, mostly), primal, breeding, size, light choking (receiving, I also have a thing for hands and voices), praise, aftercare, cockwarming, worship (giving and receiving), and aspects of caregiving (the being taken care of aspect, not the age play)
I hope to hear from you soon! My DMs are open so please send me a chat if you’re interested with a bit about yourself. Serious inquiries only, please. I’m not looking for a fling, FWBs, etc. and I won’t respond to low effort chats. Thank you for reading this far!
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