Hello! Thanks for clicking my post. I am a woman who is so tired of managing and controlling both my life, and the lives of others. I have always been a switch, but found myself in the last two years focusing on dominatrix-style encounters with submissive men. It was fun for a while, but I have other needs now that have been surging to the forefront of my mind. I am ready to let go.

As you can see, I am well versed in BDSM. I know what makes a good Dom, because I have been one, and I will be holding you to a high standard, because the internet is full of low effort horny men who don't have a clue what it takes.

I am 5'6, and slightly chubby. I am an avid walker/hiker. Brunette, medium length hair with reddish undertones. Brown eyes. Septum, eyebrow, and nipple piercings (yes, those are very fun.) I have an enlarged clitoris from testosterone gel. Also very fun to play with.

What I am looking for is at first, just a connection. Message me a little about yourself, what you do for work, what your hobbies and interests are. I prefer a man who takes care of his body- you can be fat, but not a slob. Because I'm going to need you to take care of me, too.

Please have a good sense of humor. I'm corny and nerdy, through and through. I love cats and dogs, musical theatre, indie/alt music, playing my clarinet, politics, nature, good food (maybe a little too much, that is why I am chubby despite being active, lol.) I am completely sober.

Later on, I would like to have someone help me manage my day to day life. Helps me set a daily schedule/routine, meal plan, set goals, etc. Praises me for growth, and punishes me appropriately for disobedience.

Kinks I am open to exploring once a connection is made: Orgasm control (edging, denial, forced,) vaginal stretching, nipple play, sensory deprivation, impact play, bondage, breeding kink (although I am resolutely child free), and more.

Mostly I am looking to surrender. Being in control is exhausting. I want to be taken care of emotionally, sexually, physically. Looking for solely online connections for now, just texting at first. Maybe in the future video chats, calls, IRL. Willing to send photo of myself for proof I'm a real person, lol.

I apologize in advance if I am too strong willed at first. It will probably take me some time to fully relax into a sub dynamic, as I have been dominant for a while. I promise to do my best as long as we are both mutually respectful.