G'day! This going to come in two parts. Part one, the simple. Part two, the creative. Then a summary.

Part One: Let me get the stumbling blocks out of the way early. I'm married, and looking for strictly online. If you don't like those things, please move on. I wish you well.

For those that are still here

About me - I'm from Australia, but am used to communicating with others in different timezones, so can work around it if you are willing to as well. - I have 10 years experience in BDSM. - I'm 6'1, short dark brown hair, trimmed beard, slim/athletic - I'm down to earth. - I love to keep moving and keep fit, road cycling is my biggest hobby atm. Outside of that, I love board games, I play guitar and piano, and solve Rubik's cubes for something random. - Kinkwise, I love lots of control, particularly orgasm control and denial, but also some control over non sexual aspects, light pain play, sensory play, some degradation and humiliation if she enjoys it, discreet public play, just to name a few. - I love to use the control given to me to help my sub be the best version of herself that she can for her and for me.

About you - I'm looking for someone who is open, honest, reliable and a good communicator. - You don't need to be experienced, more than happy to help you learn and explore. Happy to be a guide/mentor if you don't want to commit to me. - I'm not a huge fan of brats, or anyone who loves to intentionally disobey. I do enjoy playfulness though! - Respect is given and expected on both sides - You look after yourself, you're well spoken, have good manners, and a desire to please. - Honestly, I'm not attracted to BBW.

Part Two Imagine this, a 36 year old down to earth, fair dinkum, cool calm and collected, Aussie man who has a great family, job, and is fit in body and mind.

He is a jack of all trades, has dipped his hands in all sorts of hobbies, from fire twirling to Rubik's cubing, IT tinkering to cycling.

He is fun, well spoken, observant, emotionally intelligent, thoughtful, and regarded by many as handsome.

Good for him right?

Unfortunately, this man also has a long list of kinks he's unable to fulfil in his vanilla life, and is addicted to thrill seeking and secrets. He craves getting his dirty desires fulfilled online in order to feel complete. It is time for him to find his new sub.

He aches to find a sub who doesn't rush into things, but will take a little time to get to know each other to see if they really connect on a deeper level before jumping in. A sub who is creative and curious, who has a sense of humour but can be incredily submissive and obedient when the occasion calls for it.

Are you the sub for him? Will you please him when he gives you commands and orders? Will you study him, obsess over him, anticipate and obey his commands and structure, and do exactly what he has asked you to do for him? Will you stay wet with anticipation, and at the knowledge of his secret commanding presence? Will you unleash the filthy slut within begging for a release from him who holds the control of your pleasure?

Summary I have 10 years experience as a Dom online. I love giving structure, routine and tasks. I like to use the power given to me to help my sub, be, do and experience more than she thought she could. I hold a firm standard and love to reward when it's met, and punish when I have to.

I'm happy to send a sfw pic once trust has been established some more.

Any questions, thoughts etc, I'd love to chat. Even if nothing happens, I'd love to have some more friends kink inclined.

If you got through all that and made it this far and are still intrigued why not shoot me a message! Let me know your age, location, and tell me what animal you would be if you could be any and why. I look forward to getting to know you.