Howdy,

My name is Kal, and I’m a 33-year-old bisexual Dom from the US. I’m seeking a submissive who enjoys control and humiliation. I prefer the lady bits, I’m open to anybody's bits, gender or body type.

My Dom style focuses on control in both sexual and non-sexual areas. It's fun to control when you can orgasm, or what sex act you should do, but I also enjoy controlling what you wear or various decisions throughout your day. This isn't a total-power exchange necessarily. Whatever aspects of your life you wish to lose control of, I will take over for you. My hope would be that as trust builds, you desire to give me more things to control.

I also love humiliation. I am not a sadist, and I think the two get mixed up too much. Humiliation, when consensual, is very rewarding, and is a key part of my style. It may involve teasing, degrading tasks, or situational vulnerability. I am less inclined to verbally degrade, but if that is something you are into, I can definitely manage! Essentially this all would involve tasks that I design to make you feel vulnerable in a way that heightens your submission and emotional connection. They will be tailored to your comfort zone, and designed to feel fulfilling.

Those are the two broad categories of kink that I like to play in. I'm flexible to work within your kinks; I've been around and have a lot of familiarity with different kinks. Some of my personal loves are anal, hidden public, watersports, games of chance/skill, desperation play (wetting/holding), exhibition, and scat.

Now, I know some of those are hard and are limits. Please don't let that discourage you from chatting with me! I promise I'm not going to try to force you to engage in an act that you aren't chill with. Consent is paramount to me. I believe it’s important that both the Dom and sub are clear on boundaries, needs, and desires. Before sessions we will fully discuss what will happen and what the expectations are.

My approach includes setting daily rules, assigning tasks, and having engaging sessions where we’re actively playing. Rules will be assigned for you to follow each day and may be completely mundane and non-sexual! Tasks will be assigned as well, which are designed to have you meet specific goals based on what you like. Finally, sessions would be those times where we are actively engaged in a scene, providing real time and dynamic feedback and communication.

I will never ask you for photos of yourself. I believe that this is something that it a very personal thing and a symbol of trust for you to provide if and when you are ready. If it is part of your kink, we can discuss it, but know that otherwise you will never have to worry about angering or disappointing me. I may ask for photos on occasion of your surroundings or your wardrobe or toys to better assist me.

In lieu of photos to ensure obedience and adherence to tasks and rules, I request reports. They should be well thought out communication with feedback detailing how you feel, what is exciting you, what made you nervous, etc. If you felt vulnerable during an assignment, I want you to write it down. Write the report as if you are painting a picture for me. I don't expect you to be an award-winning novelist, but I want to be able to understand exactly how a task went for you.

If this resonates with you and you’re interested in discussing further, send me a message. Let’s see if we’re a good fit!