Looking for a submissive female to get to know, build a connection with, and control. I'm envisioning starting with something simple like orgasm control or under garment control while we chat, get to know each other, talk about kinks we enjoy, kinks we want to explore, or our day to day lives or hobbies. As we get to know each other better we'll add more control, rules, and tasks. I'm purposely being a bit vague on kinks because I want us to get to know each other but in general anything to do with control, training, goal setting, rules, and structure are things I enjoy. Limits wise I'm not interested in anything to do with blood, scat, diapers, kids, animals, age play, unsafe, ghosting, etc.

About you: - preferably late 20's but I've had some great times with younger as well so I won't rule you out but I typically have more in common with the late 20's age range. - submissive - interested in something long term - up to 6 hours ahead of eastern time zone. I'm up early and in bed early for work. - experience level doesn't matter just have an open mind and be willing to try new things. - interested in chatting throughout the day as we're both able. - no need to be a super model but be healthy and take care of yourself. - able to write a complete sentence without it being complete texting abbreviations and emoji's. Here and there is fine but I don't want to feel like I'm playing a game of charades when I read a message. - mature enough to talk rather than just ghost.

About me: - discovered kink as a teen and have been an online Dom since I was in my 20's. -EST time zone - early riser, early to bed. -work a white collar job in the construction industry. - Love control and integrating tasks into your day to day life. Little things that remind you that someone else is in control. - Able to chat during the work day most days -5'11" ~210lbs, average build - love the outdoors - spend most of my free time building stuff, cooking, and when I can fishing. -most likely the deal breaker for a lot of you, I am married. Wife has no interest in kink and our bedroom is pretty much dead. Not looking to change my situation but want to be up front about this since it will affect how quickly I can respond or when I can play at times.

If you've made it this far and would like to chat please feel free to shoot me a message and tell me your favorite color.