We are a D/s couple (26M and 19F) looking for a switch or domme to join our dynamic. The exact form this dynamic would take is something we're flexible on; we both have a wide range of kinks and enjoy experimentation, so details are something we can all work out together.
That said, we do have a general dynamic in mind that we're looking for, as well as some hard limits. To start, we're looking for someone fem, but not a specific gender or sex. We should also mention that we currently have another sub (20M) in our dynamic who might be interested in participating in our expanded dynamic as well. We recently met and we're still getting to know him, and there is no requirement for our dynamic with him to overlap with this one, we just want to be transparent and leave the option open in case there is interest.
We're looking for one of two general dynamics. The first would be a domme to act as an equal partner in dominance, controlling our sub and keeping her in her place as a team. The second wwouls be a switch who is essentaily takes the second place in the heirarchy between the two of us.
We have lots of specific kinks related to BDSM in general, and are also interested in ddlg (both as a kink and as non-sexual roleplay) and she would love a sibling or a second parental figure within that dynamic. We're always happy to talk mutual interests, so feel free to ask and/or share yours as well!
This would be a platonic and sexual relationship first and foremost, with the possibility of a romantic connection if it evolves naturally. We would have an online dynamic to start with - irl is a possibility eventually, but for the time being it would be best to think of this as an online connection. We're both on PST - we don't mind working around a bit of a time difference, but someone with a similar schedule to ours would definitely be preferred.
Right now we're looking for someone in our age range (18-26) who ideally has past BDSM experience, or at least a strong understanding of what they're looking for in a dynamic. We don't mind learning together with someone on the less experienced side, but it's important to us that our potential partner knows the fundamentals of safety, consent, and communication. In any case, we'd like to take things on the slower side to make sure we're all compatible and on the same page before jumping in to the dynamic itself.
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