Hi there!
I’m a 24-year-old Dominant from Germany, currently working as an IT Engineer. I’m passionate about structure, growth, and building deep, meaningful connections that enrich both sides of a dynamic. Let me tell you a little more about who I am and what I’m looking for:
Who I Am
Age & Background
I’m 24 years old, German, and fully immersed in the tech world as an IT Engineer. A fun little fact about me: I share my life with a mischievous and adorable cat who loves to make surprise appearances during online calls.
Hobbies & Interests
I’m a tech enthusiast through and through. My free time is a blend of creativity and productivity:
- Gaming (I’m currently obsessed with Escape from Tarkov).
- 3D printing and tinkering with projects.
- Running a home server loaded with self-hosted software.
- Coding and problem-solving for fun.
- Relaxing with streaming platforms like Netflix, YouTube, and Twitch—or diving into podcasts and music to unwind.
Appearance
I’m 1.78m tall, wear glasses, and have short brown hair. While I carry a little extra weight, I see it as part of who I am and embrace my appearance with confidence.
What I’m Looking For
I’m searching for a like-minded submissive partner to share and nurture an online D/s dynamic. Ideally, you’re someone who:
- Lives in or aligns with a similar daily rhythm (GMT 1 or close). Time zones matter when building consistent routines and communication.
- Thrives under structure and sees submission as a journey of personal growth. You enjoy following rules, completing tasks, and maintaining routines that help you feel fulfilled and connected.
- Values deep trust and open communication. You’re someone who loves sharing secrets, engaging in meaningful conversations, and exploring your inner world together.
- Feels comfortable with NSFW elements within the dynamic. This includes exchanging pictures or tasks that foster trust and deepen the connection. We’ll discuss boundaries thoroughly to ensure mutual comfort, but it’s essential this isn’t a hard limit for you.
While the dynamic will begin online, I’m open to meeting in person if the connection develops into something exceptional.
My Experience
I’ve been fascinated by the BDSM lifestyle since I was 16 and have spent nearly a decade immersing myself in its culture, learning, and growing. Over the past nine years, I’ve had the privilege of engaging in four fulfilling online dynamics. These experiences helped me refine my style and gain a clear understanding of the kind of partnership I seek.
That said, I value honesty. My experience has been exclusively online so far, and I’m a virgin in real life. If that’s a dealbreaker, I respect that—but I can assure you that my dedication and experience within this lifestyle are anything but superficial.
Kinks & Dynamics
Control lies at the heart of what excites me. I’m passionate about the intricate dance of power exchange, and some of my favorite aspects of a dynamic include:
- Outfit control, orgasm control, and spankings, to name a few.
- Designing detailed rules and routines, tracking progress, and documenting boundaries with precision.
- Building systems like spreadsheets for pain scales, task management, or rule adherence. These tools keep the dynamic smooth, organized, and intentional.
Of course, this is only the beginning. There’s so much more I’m excited to explore with the right partner.
If any of this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to reach out. Let’s start a conversation, see if we connect, and, who knows, maybe build something extraordinary together.
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