Hello, Redditors of r/BDSMpersonals. I’m a Daddy Dominant based in the New England area, seeking an open-minded and devoted submissive for a long-term, meaningful dynamic. I’m a partnered, experienced Dominant with years of exploration and growth in this lifestyle, and I’m ready to welcome another submissive into my life—a relationship built on trust, passion, and the exquisite dance of power exchange.

About Me – Vanilla & Kink

In my vanilla life, I work hard and am deeply passionate about the world around me. I thrive on cooking and baking, losing myself in the rhythmic process of creating something delicious for those I care about. I’m a lover of the outdoors—whether hiking through lush forests or standing in awe at the peak of a mountain. I find inspiration in art, music, and the written word, and I frequent museums, concerts, and galleries to feed my creative spirit.

In my kink life, I bring that same passion, curiosity, and dedication to my Dominance. I revel in the art of bondage, the exquisite thrum of impact play, and the creativity of roleplay. Whether weaving restraint into the contours of your body, letting the symphony of impact paint across your skin, or stepping into a shared fantasy, I aim to create experiences that deepen connection, explore boundaries, and leave you floating in the sweet haze of subspace.

Aftercare is paramount to me—it’s the moment where the bonds of trust grow even stronger. I’ll be there to ground you, to stroke your hair, to offer soothing words, or even share a laugh over some well-earned chocolate or tea. Aftercare is the heartbeat of a scene and a core part of the care I offer as a Dominant.

Why You’ll Want to Be Mine

I am a patient teacher, a passionate guide, and a Dominant who sees submission as a gift to be cherished and nurtured. I value clear communication, mutual respect, and the excitement of shared growth. My creativity and attentiveness make every session and every moment together tailored to you—your desires, your needs, and your fantasies.

Physically, I stand 5’5” with dark features, brown eyes, and a lean frame. My devotion to self-care mirrors the care I will bring to you. Emotionally, I’m grounded, dependable, and open. I value vulnerability as much as I value strength, and I know that being a good Dominant isn’t about command alone—it’s about truly seeing and supporting my submissive.

What I’m Looking For

I’m seeking a submissive who is eager to learn, grow, and devote themselves to a powerful, passionate dynamic. You should be open-minded and willing to explore new depths in yourself. Experience is welcome, but not necessary—I’m more than happy to guide and train someone new to the lifestyle.

You’ll find that I am deeply invested in your growth, both as a submissive and as a person. Our connection will go beyond the bedroom or the dungeon; I believe in building a bond that intertwines our vanilla and kink lives seamlessly. Whether we’re negotiating a scene, hiking in the woods, or simply enjoying a quiet evening of conversation, I want us to build something lasting and meaningful.

Next Steps

If this resonates with you, send me a thoughtful message introducing yourself. Tell me about your experience in kink (or lack thereof), your interests, and what you’re looking for in a dynamic. Let’s start a conversation and see if we’re a good match.

I’m here for connection, growth, and exploration—someone who will submit not just because they want to, but because they know they’re submitting to someone who values their submission. If you’re ready to begin this journey, let’s talk.

With anticipation, Daddy