I see myself as a mentor/trainer. I like to understand sub's capabilities and according to that prepare instructions for a sub to follow. The idea is to personalize them, so they are suitable for each sub individually
I like to group kinks into 4 categories: - kinks - sth a sub likes -fantasies -sth a sub would like to try -soft limits - sth sub can try, but later, after building mutual trust and with some push -hard limits - sth sub doesn't want to do
Based on that information info about toys and additional conditions (e.g. parents at home, roommate, lack of availability during work etc.) and attitude towards sending pics and voice (is it okay or not), I prepare instructions for a sub to follow. Then we can talk about the day, how did a sub feel doing them. We can discuss any concerns/ doubts
Kinks that I have already prepared instructions for (as a reference, but I'm open to other kinks as well): orgasm denial, edging, spanking, nipple clamps, pain in general - slaps, nipple play, toothpaste, hot sauce, wax, etc. TPE, pee holding instructions, humiliation, degradation, body writing
Of course instructions don't need to contain all of them, I just wanted to mention what I have experience with
Limits that I don't want to put in instructions - scat, blood, vomit, illegal
Anything outside limits I'm open to include into instructions
If above description sounds interesting for you, feel free to reach out to me
P.S. if someone is in Poland, especially in Warsaw I'm open also for IRL meetings
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