A little about me: I’m a 28-year-old South African woman, neurospicy, curvy, and conventionally attractive. I’m a demisexual with a penchant for minds that seduce before hands do. Been in the BDSM community for about 7 years now and have had 3 Doms and 2 subs in the past. Guess you could say I know my way around a St Andrews Cross🤓

When I’m not indulging in my kinky proclivities (which is rarer than you may think), you can find me reading all types of literature, my favourites are progression fantasy, LitRPGs and dark romance. I love a good trope like RH, omegaverse (not a manosphere co-sign, thanks), protective MMCs, black cat FMCs, and dark academia🖤 Honestly, if you’d enjoy my book rants and be game to reenact smutty scenes with me you’re immediately gonna be in the top three 🤸🏾‍♀️

I’m also into Pilates, barre, yoga, hot girl walks in nature, and horse riding. I hate gyms (too many germs and people🥹) but really enjoy staying active. My interests are pretty varied. I’m equally passionate about LLMs, Valorant, and the psychological effects of perfume (secret weapon tbh). I thrive on deep, intellectually stimulating conversations and long, meaningful phone calls.

About you: I’m drawn to confident men who are natural leaders, kind, and emotionally intelligent. Empathy and consistency are important to me, I value a man who honors his word and follows through on his promises. Physically, I love an athletic man who takes care of himself and takes pride in his appearance. Tattoos and a beard? Absolute kryptonite. Tattoos, in particular, turn my brain to mush, it’s both a kink and a hyper-fixation 😵‍💫. Also, please be taller than me (I’m 1.63m)-I just want to feel smol🥺👉🏽👈🏽

I’m looking for something intentional, not casual, so it’s important you can dedicate time daily to building our connection and value open, honest communication. While life can get busy, I believe in making time for someone you genuinely want to get to know.

Hard limits: Polyamory and someone who has children.

Reasons not to message me: * You haven’t seriously considered what a long-distance relationship entails or aren’t willing to put in the effort to make one work until we can close the distance.

Lastly: Start your message with your favourite fruit so I know you read this! Make it interesting, tell me about your life and what makes you a Daddy💕.

I hope you’re having a great day/evening when you read this! 🌸

xx