Hello,

Thank you for checking on my post. To start, I am a 27 M dom, and recently moved to the DC area. I am a generally nerdy guy who likes travel, cooking, video games, ttrpgs, board games, anime and more. Hobbies are important to me and a great way for me to connect with someone. I always like learning, so please tell me about your hobbies or interests.

Physically, I am 6'1, dad bodish, auburn hair and beard, more on the hairy masculine side. I keep a decently active lifestyle usually, but I am just getting out of grad school so I have had a stressful year or so neglecting my normal fitness. I am getting back into it and I enjoy walks, hikes, gym sessions and yoga. Always open to different ideas too.

What I am looking for is someone to have a connection with and learn about each other both as sexual partners and people. I am a dom and I would prefer someone who is a switch or sub generally. The specific type can be flexible, what is important to me is that you are decently healthy both in lifestyle and mental health wise, able to be your own person, and can hold a nice conversation. Being able to just have nice flowing conversations and open up to someone about both my normal life and kinks is the ideal relationship I want.

To be more specific as a dom, I am more into things like bondage, CNC, training, free use, spanking and discipline. I can be a sadist and a controlling dom sometimes, but I don't need to be. I am very flexible with how I go about it, the main thing is to have someone who is enthusiastic about it and wants to explore as much as I do while healthily communicating their desires and concerns.

I am open to starting out more as friends and then seeing if we feel we want anything else. Poly situations are not my thing so just know I am not interested in such an arrangement if that is relevant, no judgement though. Online is preferred for a short while before we can meet up and feel comfortable around each other. If this sounds interesting please reach out. Best of luck to everyone otherwise.