Posted this pre-Christmas but the holidays, vacation, and a bad cold basically made my post not great at my replying and keeping track of messages. So thought best to try again rather than sift through deleted and month old messages. Sorry for anyone I lost track of or didn’t respond.

This is a long shot. Canadian who is 41 AND seeking a Daddy Dom AND I’m a BBW, AND I need discipline as an important aspect. What can I say? I’m needy and have low expectations of Reddit but there’s always hope!

I am a SWF who is really seeking a DD/HOH style relationship. I primarily like to be accountable with spanking but am open to other things of course depending on the Daddy. Please know that I also enjoy and attend national spanking events and a local-ish one. I understand that it’s not for everyone but I adore going and would love to attend with my person, but if it’s a dealbreaker for you that I attend and platonically play, I understand but we will not be a match.

Spanking and discipline are definitely my main kinks but I am also submissive so there is some exploring I’d like to do on that end. I hate the questions on limits and the like because in the beginning it’s all soft limits and exploration. As trust comes, those limits might go away but I will never be a ‘hardcore’ kinkster who has a bucket list of things to try. I am simpler - I love what I love.

I also like vanilla things; board games, homesteading like baking and canning, video games; particularly my Oculus at the moment, and I’m fairly involved with my church as well.

I tend to like older men but please note that although young men have a lot to offer, I learned long ago that I can’t really go more than a couple years younger than myself.

Thanks for reading and please note that I reply to all chats/messages as long as you put in something in regards to my post (no hi there messages) and you are over 35. Also I’m a couple hours east of Toronto but not necessarily seeking someone in Ontario (although a nice perk) but not looking outside of Canada/US

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