Hiiii! I am an experienced poly sub living in a Brooklyn. My life, generally speaking, is awesome. Great job that I love. Great apartment. The whole NYC version of the American dream. Now, I just need to find my dream domme girlfriend.

Some things to know about me

• I have a tall and skinny build with brown hair flecked with more grey than I like to admit.
• My workout of choice is bouldering and can be found climbing a couple times a week.
• In a world of boxers or briefs, I prefer a colorful jockstrap.
• I love to travel and have been to 30 countries. There is a time and place for a beach resort, but the moments I always look back on are the killer roadside food I ate in some out of the way town in Mexico. I'm all about the adventure.
• I love to cook with a bias towards Asian food. Some of my happiest times are puttering around the kitchen cooking for friends and family.
• I am poly with other partners. I am not looking for another nesting partner. I am open to a host of relationship constructs.
• I play an unhealthy amount of chess.
• There is a time and place for a good cocktail. But, I am more of a beer guy.
• I am left leaning and donate to charities likes Planned Parenthood.

A guide to kinky me

• I am very service oriented. Service to me is all about meeting my partner's needs and making their life easier. This goes well beyond the bedroom door to me.
• I have my fair share of more physical kinks. I love things like tease and denial/orgasm control, body worship, bondage, spanking, group sex, face sitting, and pegging.
  
• I am not the biggest pain slut in the world. I would run screaming from a cane or a single tail.
• Blood, poop, sounding, and findom are all hard limits.
• End of the day, the vanilla side of a relationship is more important to me than the kinky side. I care much more about being able to laugh with you and have interesting conversations than whether our kinks line up perfectly.

If you are interested, please reach out and tell me a bit about yourself.