Here goes… something! Well something good, hopefully.

I’m N, a 33-year-old woman from Manila, who typed and deleted this ad for over 10 times, now diving into the world of exploring my submissive side—and I’m eager to have a confident yet gentle Dom by my side to guide me through this quest. This might get a bit detailed, but I want to be clear about what I’m looking for and what I can bring to the table (or the bed? Or both?)

What I’m Looking For

• Between the ages of 30-45
• Ideally someone who leans toward the softer and gentler side of the Dominant spectrum with a balance of kinks to teach and a great deal of patience and can show me the ropes (maybe even literally), who takes pleasure in their sub’s pleasure
• Good communicator and conversationalist who’s experienced and puts great importance on honesty, safety and consent and will not treat me as a kink dispenser. Aftercare is an expectation and highly important, which can be discussed
• Strictly monogamous and single. I’m only interested in devoting my time and submission to one person so looking for the same in return. Not in a rush nor the type to force things, but I’d like to be intentional with both our times
• Left-leaning/liberal politically or just generally level-headed and conscious on societal issues
• Takes care of themselves whether it’s being active or going to therapy or any self-improvement, as I am the same

About Me * True crime doc junkie and a voracious reader with a soundtrack of life that’s as varied as my taste in TV shows all while having a love-hate thing with running * Passionate, curious and gets stimulated by good conversations. Friends think I’m hilarious, but honestly it’s just emotional trauma that birthed the witty jokes * Looks: Leaves quite an impression at 5 ft, mid-length brown hair, with a chubby-curvy body type. Almond-shaped brown eyes with a nice smile, I dare say * Made this post to open myself up to more possibilities and be able to truly define my submissiveness * While I’m in Manila and in-person is a priority, I’m open to doing this online with the possibility of relocating for the right person should it get to that point. Verification will be required at some point, of course for us two!

As for kink, while admittedly a novice, I’m by no means naive. I’ll save the specifics on 1:1 convos, but I’m used to being in control on the reg, so I crave submission in the bedroom, keen to offer myself up to someone who will prove themselves worthy of it. Armed with passion and curiosity, my willingness to learn and eagerness to please comes naturally.

If any of this resonates with you and you got excited instead of bored of these long ass lists & paragraphs, send me a thoughtful intro with your name, age, location/general availability to connect and why you think we might just be a good fit. Include a song reco so I know you read through. I won’t likely respond to low-effort or immediately sexually charged openers — give me something good, please.

PS. I’m also open to having friends and connections in the kink community, DMs are open for you ❤️

Note: Edited to put age preference