I’m a 45-year-old male switch seeking a dominant partner to explore a side of me that’s been left untouched for far too long. I live in a D/s relationship with my spouse, but as she is fully submissive, I’ve had no opportunity to indulge my own submissive desires. That’s where I hope you might come in.

My life is full—I work in a demanding field and have responsibilities to my family. While my availability has its limits, I will absolutely make time for you. I’m not someone who can submit at your feet 24/7, but if you’re looking for a devoted submissive who will treasure every moment you give me, I could be just the one you’re seeking.

Physically, if looks matter to you: I’m 183 cm tall and 96 kg with a beard, moustache, and short light brown hair. A few piercings but no tattoos. Think “bear type,” if that paints a picture for you.

My greatest thrill is in being degraded. There’s nothing quite like the rush of being called a depraved slut, whether whispered in my ear or sent as a morning message to start my day. I crave verbal humiliation and find joy in completing degrading tasks. That said, trust is essential—before diving into the depths of submission, I need to feel secure in your hands.

As for you, I’m open to all genders but prefer someone 30 who revels in domination, degradation, and control. You don’t have to be a seasoned pro—assertiveness and a genuine love for the power exchange will more than suffice. While I’m based in Europe, I welcome connections from anywhere, though time differences may add a bit of a challenge.

I do have other kinks, but those are for us to explore together if I’ve piqued your interest. I’m not a fan of kink lists—let’s discover our chemistry naturally.

Limits? I keep those clear: no acts that interfere with daily life, no public exposure, age play, bestiality, blood or anything illegal. At the end of the day, every session should leave us both fulfilled, glowing with satisfaction, and eager for the next.

If this speaks to you, I’d love to hear your thoughts.