One of the things I like about BDSM is the contrasts. For instance, one minute we’re sitting on the couch cuddling and making out like a normal cutesy couple and the next minute we might be engaged in some pretty rough play. I’d like a situation where we can experience these contrasts everyday. We’ll have fun as a couple pursuing our hobbies, traveling, and building a life together, but you’ll always be ready to serve and please.
I’m not looking for a housewife or 24/7 traditional gender role dynamic. I’m perfectly capable of cooking and cleaning and I’ll assume you’re capable of maintaining gainful employment, but there are certainly times when it’s fun to play with those roles and I’m going to want you to put on a skimpy maid outfit and engage in some domestic servitude an act of your submission.
My favorite kinks are power dynamics/exchange, spanking, daddydom, dirty talk, praise, moderate degradation/humiliation, light bondage, breast play, outfit control, impregnation/breeding play, and overstimulation/orgasm control.
Outside of the bedroom I am a pretty down to earth, calm, and respectful person who likes the outdoors and reading. I’d like a partner who is equally down to earth and who ideally shares a few non-kinky interests we’ll be able to enjoy together.
If you are inexperienced as a sub or even in general sexually, I am a patient teacher. I can handle inexperience, but not uncertainty. So please only respond if a full time D/s dynamic is something you’ve thought a lot about and are pretty sure you want. If you’re just here to test the waters, I’m not the dom for you.
When you respond please let me know your age, general location, and what makes you want this kind of dynamic.
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