About me:

I'm a big mix of nerd, alternative and soft girl. I like horror, manga, smut/erotica, gaming, makeup, fashion, animals, cute things and content creation. I, like everyone else, have some mental health issues but I'm not looking for someone to fix/take responsibility for them. Day to day(out of dynamic) I come off as very responsible and typically have people thinking I'm dominant. I do have a Dom currently, I am not looking to replace them and they are okay with my having other dynamics. My current Dom I would consider to be my first, so I am very much still exploring and learning things despite having been interested in BDSM for the past 20 years.

About my kink: I enjoy being able to let go of control to someone I trust and not having to think. I like someone who is able to be strict but soft, prefer rewards to punishments(usually) and I don't tolerate yelling or hostile tones. I like being told what to do and thrive with clear guidelines and communication. Very heavily into affection, praise, positive reinforcement and being doted on.

I can be bratty but it's not a super frequent thing and typically is in the form of teasing/being playful.

I do have toys that can be controlled via app long distance, this is something that could be discussed after getting to know one another.

What I'm looking for: A caregiver, Daddy Dom or pleasure Dom. Age 26-46. As I said, strict but also soft. Someone who communicates well, is very nurturing and affectionate. This would be kept strictly online/long distance and I'm not looking for a relationship but, as I am demi, I will have to get to know you before I can feel attracted/sexually interested. But I am happy to test the waters with things like being given mundane commands or tasks while we learn about each other. This would ideally be long term.

If you actually read all of this, put a cat emoji in your message. Remember, effort is attractive.

Hard boundaries: No yelling No hostile tones No humiliation/degradation No lying No bodily waste

Partial list of interests: Orgasm control/forced orgasm Cnc Bondage/movement control Possibly DD/LG without age regression Pet play(soft) Exhibitionism Impact Dubious consent/Naive play Praise Task and reward Breed Cum play Temporary branding Sleep play Free use Masked stalker scenes