I want us to meet for the first time at a bar/cafe. I want a friendship to be the initial main focus. After our first date however, I would send you a google form to fill out. We would send each other a complete, detailed list of our top kinks (and specific scenarios for each kink) and fantasies, things we’re curious about, etc. I want this list to be as open/detailed/in depth and deranged as possible with our deepest desires. Link your favourite smuts, things your partners have done to you that you’ve absolutely loved, i want it all. The catch? We can’t talk about each other’s lists or make reference to their knowledge. It never happened.

As our friendship continues, we constantly have each other’s list in the back of our head, possibly teasing eachother in a friendly manner, with sly comments here and there. At the start, these teases would be so light that the other person may not even notice. Maybe we aren’t even allowed to tease eachother around all until X amount of dates, even if it’s just passing remarks.

Want to go on a multiple dates before sending the list? Want to not tease each other at all but before each date/hangout we drop a tease before leaving? Yes please. I want to put emphasis on the slow burn as much as possible. How long can either of us last? How long would it take you to break? Just a weeks? What if one person lasts an entire 2 months? What if this has been going on for months and then suddenly one person ghosts the other, forcing the other person to break?

I want an extreme-smut/fiction level-slow burn filled with ecstasy. Something that will re-awaken our primal desires and enhance our day to day motivation. If you have any recommendations for a different slowburn scenario or changes to this one, don’t be shy:)

Since we’re gunning for a “friendship”, small description about me;

• 6ft 24yr old shoulder length wavy messy hair with bleached ends. tend to wear lots of accessories:o I’ve been told at parties that i’m easy to spot/remember and that my style is like i’m from the future (i don’t dress as intense like that anymore though😭)
• Recently moved to my own 4 1/2
• Love to collect♡ trinkets or ceramics, whatever it may be
• Top hobbies include film photography, creating art, custom projects with my 3d printer, discovering music by listening to the 7” vinyl section in vinyl stores
• Top interests include astrophysics/astrobiology.
• Top genre atm is shoegaze. Love lots of different types of rock (grunge, noise, punk). Revisiting the intimate dreamy genre of the internet/daniel caeser/men i trust vibe.