This is a need, and the search is for compatibility.

After years of messing around online at Reddit and other platforms, and just being that much older, I've grown tired of most of the quick-thrill antics that used to interest me on NSFW platforms.

TPE in an online setting is what remains. I enjoy dispensing it the most and it's what I am best at.

I am interested in finding a biological/cis woman who is interested in an online-only TPE dynamic. This will not lead to IRL. This will not lead to hookups. I am only interested in finding a compatible partner who needs what I offer, and wants to have it for as long as possible.

This would ultimately involve: daily, weekly, monthly and long-term tasks with accountability based on your interests, with structure, accountability and goals that can include everything from . I focus on detail, duration, sustainability, and creativity. There is a good deal of life coaching involved with this: nobody is set up for failure, but kink aspects are important.

Personal kinks are: psychological/emotional control, edging, orgasm control/denial/female chastity, humiliation, service submission, punishment, clothing control, alternative persona-building, accountability tasks, and more.

Trust-building along the way is essential. Discretion is an absolute. Your IRL relationships and responsibilities are important and should not be threatened by this; I am not interested in ruining anyone's life. While all good things come to an end, I am more interested in following a path with someone for it's natural duration, which can exist for a surprisingly long time.

No gross stuff, no self-harm, nothing illegal. Visual documentation will have to be part of this at the right juncture, but I am extremely patient. Have a career or at least be working on one. Those in the low 30- high 40 range are best suited. I work at all hours and can't always be online, but I am good at checking in.

Send a message with your questions and we go from there. This takes time. All good things do.