Disclaimer: I'm actually pretty serious and not looking for a quick horny fling. I rather establish trust and good communication first, as I need to be able to get along with you and know you as a person before doing anything too intimate.

About me

I'm a 33-y/o from South India working in the marketing sector as a PM of sorts. I'm single, monogamous, attractive, and physically active. I prefer to chat about my hobbies and interests in DMs as I'm a rather private person, but short version is that I like sports, food, and puzzles. Personality wise I'm well mannered, respectful, and witty. I lean introverted but I don't mind leading conversations and go out often. I am looking for one person to spend my time and energy on.

What I'm looking for

I have around ~9 years of bdsm experience at this point, both online and in person. Recently, I've come to the realization that I'm not necessarily looking for anything too "labely", but rather a relationship that has certain dynamics woven into it. In my day to day life, I have very strong friendships that are built upon mutual respect and shared interests. I'm looking for something similar, with someone who I can trust to show this side of me to.

What I'm into

My vibe is very much soft and nurturing with a hint of cruel teasing. I show affection through lots of praise, handholding, and aftercare - all of which I use as positive reinforcement to help you achieve your irl goals, as well as bringing out your submissive side. Kink wise, I have an array of experience both typical and nontypical, but I've found that so much of this depends on chemistry so a lot of this is a build-as-we-go area. The main dynamic I'm looking for is a safe, comfortable space for you to turn your brain off and be the subbiest sub possible as I keep calling you my good girl.

Who I'm looking for

I do well with high achievers and the overworked/stressed. Passionate, ambitious, empathetic, with just the right amount of bitchiness are all qualities that I am very attracted to...extra points if you can talk shit and take it as well. Whether you're outwardly submissive or not doesn't really matter, the important thing is who you choose to give your submission to. That should be earned and treated with respect, even if what comes after is anything but.

You should reach out

If you're interested in the dynamic above. You know your submission is earned and not easily given away. You are excited about life and have things that you're proud of. You value communication and trust. You like cuddles, I'm great at cuddles.

If you do reach out, please tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for, and why you think a dynamic like this would benefit you