Hi there, I'm a 45yo daddy looking for a princess with a big heart, kind smile and curious eyes (IRL, not looking for an online thing). Hopefully, something long-term but open to explore other type of relationships. I'm well-educated, well-traveled, kind-hearted, playful and positive personality, enjoy traveling (locally and internationally), enjoy learning and growing as a person, honest and respectful with soft and loving mentor/DDlg kink, and a confidant side that can put you in your place if/when you've been a bad girl.

I live west of the San Fernando Valley but work in Orange County a few times a week, so anything in between can work. I'm a university professor, so if age gap / student/professor role play is your thing, I'm open to all sorts of kinks. When I'm not teaching or doing research, I love learning and growing as a person. I enjoy challenging myself all the time, currently working on developing tabletop games for adults and doing stand-up comedy for fun.

I am very open minded and don't have any problem jumping right into a kink conversation, although I do have some limits (as to what I will do, not as to what I'm comfortable talking about)- I don't think I'll enjoy scat/urine, very strong humiliation/degradation (light is ok), severe/extreme pain (all good with spanking), though I'm generally open minded so I'm open to trying new things, depending on the dynamics and levels of trust.

I'm average built, not skinny nor overweight, try to live a healthy lifestyle, both physically and mentally; go to the gym, eat healthy, etc. and I'm usually attracted to younger-looking, fit, slim or petite sub types; a bit of curves is great too. I think everyone should feel comfortable with their body, embrace and love who they are, but I'm not attracted to very curvy women (and if you are- know that there are lots of guys out there who absolutely love curvy women, so be yourself and don't change what you love about yourself!) Most important for me in any relationship is open communication, trust and respect (even in a CNC or other kinks) and I enjoy playfulness and exploration.

If this sounds like something we should explore, send me a dm, tell me a bit about you, and we’ll take it from there.