I’ve felt lucky to make really wonderful, meaningful connections with redditors in the past. Whether it was a good conversation over coffee, an incredibly hot night in a hotel, or building a deeper emotional and sexual connection over time, each one taught me valuable lessons. I’ve learned a lot about myself and I think I have a better sense of what I’m looking for.

I’m looking for a relationship with someone consistent, compassionate, emotionally intelligent, and sexually compatible. I’m still exploring kink and sexuality, and I’d like to find a partner who will join me on that journey. But ideally our connection isn’t limited to sex; we can talk about the miraculous mundanity of our lives, enjoy each other’s company, and grow together.

I’m 32F, 5’9” with an average body, tattooed and pierced. My favorite place in the city is the New York Botanical Garden. I’m reading a lot more non-fiction and poetry these days, watching less tv. I love boat tours, impressionist art, live music, and a good slice of cake. Sexually, I love giving/receiving oral, butt plugs and toys, and have a bit of an exhibitionist side. I like cum play and public play. I’m very interested in exploring more group sex, restraints/bondage, and submission.

I’m generally attracted to dudes around my age or older (26 to 50-ish) who give great hugs and cuddles. Kindness, patience, emotional maturity, and good communication are just as important as physical chemistry. Experience with BDSM is a plus, as is a big dick cutie (7 inches). Just be willing to experiment and open to each other’s fantasies. Please be single, local to the NYC area, and want to be in a relationship.

Please include a SFW picture in your reply and the title of your favorite book from your childhood in the subject. I’ll return in kind.