About Me:

I am an aspiring daddy-dom that is looking for a little/sub to cherish and pamper with affection and praise. I work full-time in IT and live in Cumbria, north west England, having relocated here for career reasons. I'm AuDHD and of the introverted species, so if you're neurodivergent too then we will get along swimmingly! I’m also something of an information sponge; I like to constantly learn and I am particularly fond of Neolithic history and mythology, amongst a trove of other topics and special interests. I consider myself more of a gentle, nurturing caregiver when it comes to kink; I can be clingy and possessive, so I'm interested in the emotional, nurturing aspects of DDLG/CGL and thus an intimate dynamic with my little or sub in addition to bedroom fun.

Hobbies & Interests:

• Passionate music fan, particularly heavy metal and goth. This reflects in my fashion sense with loads of black clothes, check shirts, and knitwear when it gets colder. I loved going to concerts regularly when studying at university, but these days it's more of an annual pilgrimage to Download and Bloodstock Festival.

• Avid reader of non-fiction and fiction, particularly history and horror. Currently reading HP Lovecraft; cosmic horror probably isn't a good idea before bed.

• Dilettante who enjoys cramming my cranium with an assortment of random facts (still suck at Trivial Pursuit, though). A 2025 goal of mine is to research witchcraft, paganism, and magic as I'm curious about incorporating rituals and spirituality into my life.

• Hiking and day trips to museums and the countryside. As a new resident of Cumbria, I endeavour to hike as many of the local fells and mountains in the Lake District this year as possible. I am fond of solo travel and have ambitions of visiting Iceland's vast land of fire and ice as my grand holiday destination sometime in the coming years. Would love to spoil my human with travelling frequently if she's a good girl.

• PC gaming and board games. Old School RuneScape is a nostalgic dopamine dispenser to me, otherwise I mainly stick to single player experiences, especially if it has a good story. I love a good strategy or trivia board game in the form of Catan, Ticket to Ride, Scrabble, Articulate and many others. I do get competitive!

• Generally quite left-leaning; regardless of its practicalities, anarchism is an interesting ideology. Would prefer someone to be on a similar wave-length, though I'm not rigid in my beliefs. So long as you are overall a compassionate person and not bigoted, I don't mind your political affiliations.

Physical characteristics:

• 5'6/168cm tall

• White with average to muscular build

• Short brown hair, beard, and blue eyes

• Cis/AMAB man

Who I'm looking for:

A little/sub from the UK who is younger and shorter than me for a long-term dynamic that would eventually culminate in an offline relationship after some time getting to know each other. I'm particularly interested in a dynamic that incorporates elements of DDlg/cgl; this would include positive affirmation, being your accountability partner, and looking after you as a gentle daddy would. Someone who is also clingy, possessive and wants regular communication. Someone with similar interests and hobbies, who wants to be disciplined and put in her place while receiving nose kisses, head pats and cuddles. An angel during the day, and a nymphet by night. I'm ultimately looking for my forever human and life partner, not a short-lived online fling; utmost affection, transparency, and open communication is what you deserve, and I want to be your forever Daddy if we establish chemistry.

Kinks (non-exhaustive):

• DDlg/cgl

• Praising (giving)

• Light degradation (giving)

• Body writing (giving and receiving)

• Light bondage

• Anal (giving)

• Assplay (giving)

• Costumes/Roleplay

Dealbreakers:

• Only interested in UK subs/littles; I've tried long-distance and it simply never works, so I don't want to waste your time if you're abroad as I am not open to relocating.

• Being someone's play partner - ultimately looking for my forever human, not casual fun or sexting.

• I would want this dynamic to sit somewhere between a kink and a lifestyle; I'm not in this purely for sex, and I want my human to still be independent enough to look after herself.

• Open to experimentation but hard limits include toilet play, knife play, ABDL, cucking, and blood. I'm also not interested in being a submissive or a switch.

• Firmly monogamous only, I am not interested in polyamory and will not compromise on this.

I'm open to all ethnicities, races, and most body types, but too overweight is a limit for me (chubby is fine). I am only wanting to pursue a dynamic with a cis-woman. If I sound like an appealing daddy-dom, message me with your favourite band, book, or game so I know you've read this. Physical attraction is somewhat important to me, so I'm happy to exchange selfies after some correspondence first. Hope to hear from you soon!