With the arrival of the new year, there's new opportunities to find what was missing from our lives in years prior - I felt a little something missing from mine, hence the search.

I am a 31 year old Ivy League-educated Latino with my own place in Manhattan - physically I am 6'1" and fairly fit. In my professional career, I'm a law firm researcher. As for the non-boring parts of regular life: I'm a huge lover of the arts, constant concert goer, and am making great progress into learning my 4th language - and not so great progress learning piano. I am very into being in the outdoors and are likely to find me cycling, playing soccer or volleyball, hiking, boxing, or running. But that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy indoor activities! I also enjoy talking about anything from favorite art eras (impressionist) to politics (I'm left-wing) to sharing music to outdoor activities and other sports. I'm also always on the lookout for dystopian and Latin American lit recommendations, along with really any other fiction recs, especially if it’s a bit more essay oriented and less book of the week. And I’d be remiss to not mention playing board games and watching TV/movies as well- I actually have too many streaming services I don't use often enough. I’ve recently enjoyed watching The Bear, Upload, Fleabag, and Blue-Eye Samurai.

I would prefer to initially start off chatting to create excellent rapport with a potential partner beforehand. Clicking with someone in and out of the bedroom is just something that enhances the experience and is probably my favorite part of meeting anyone, in kink or otherwise.

Now to the fun stuff in re kinks: I am very into being deepthroated, orgasm denial for you, forcing multiple orgasms and hypersensitive play, bondage, struggle fucking/CNC, spitting, choking, hair pulling, slapping, leash play, spanking, begging, multiple subs at once, cuckqueans, and use of physical force. I'd like to try watersports and cumplay, as well as anal play. Very open to alternative exploration as well. How sadistic I get can definitely be up for discussion, but you can always choose to relinquish that option to me, with your enthusiastic consent. Consent is the sexiest concept and all of these preferences are up for discussion. I would love for us to explore with each session even further, pushing boundaries in a comfortable, trusting way. I'm interested in ethical nonmonogamy - how that shapes up is up for discussion as well.

You:

I only have 3 prerequisites:

• let’s not ghost each other, please! We’re both adults.
• physically active in some way; I personally enjoy being active and it likely won’t be a good fit if you’re sitting/laying about all day - though those that are starting or want to get started on being more active are more than welcome.
• a willing conversationalist: I find it worse than pulling teeth when I get a single 4 word line or just a single word answer back to a paragraph I may have written. I have had my fill of long tomes to read in college and that’s not what I am expecting, but just some level of back and forth is greatly appreciated.

And here are preferences: my ideal partner would be 18-40, towards the more smol/petite side of the height spectrum (I enjoy the size difference), with preference for Asian (Central, South, East = all great in my book) or Middle Eastern women. Very educated as well. But! Those are only preferences. Frankly, as long as we have excellent rapport then appearances and age go out the window - although I do hope you're a fantastic conversationalist and just as kinky. As for the locations: I would love it if you were based in NYC but it really isn’t too hard to get around the wider metro area by train and Philly is pretty close - I don’t mind traveling to you sometimes or bringing you to me if needed (tbh might be faster for me to get to Philly than the end of Staten Island). I also travel a ton to Tennessee so that is certainly an option as well. I would also like to mention that I am open to NB and trans individuals, especially those leaning towards the femme side of the spectrum.

I think those are the main bases covered - looking forward to hearing from anyone interested!