Hey there,

Let me guess—you’ve probably already scrolled past five ads promising to “own your soul” or “train you to perfection,” right? Don’t worry, this isn’t one of those. I’m not here to spout clichés or oversell myself as the most mystical Dom on the planet. I’m just someone who knows what he’s looking for: a genuine connection, a curious submissive, and maybe someone who doesn’t immediately ghost after the second message.

What I’m Into

I’m not big on rigid labels, but here’s what I enjoy (yes, the part you’ve been waiting for):

Power Exchange (Who doesn’t like a bit of order in the chaos?)

Mental Connection (Getting inside your head is my favorite kind of challenge)

Humiliation & Objectification (When done consensually—it’s more about pushing limits than tearing down)

CNC (Always built on trust and a mutual understanding—consent is key here)

At the core, it’s not just about kinks; it’s about building something real and tailored to the connection we create.

What I’m Looking For

I’m looking for someone who’s curious and willing to explore. You don’t need to have it all figured out—I’m happy to take the time to understand what submission means to you. Vulnerability is earned, not expected on day one. Let’s start slow and build something meaningful together.

Since this is online, communication is everything. If you’re not up for talking, this probably won’t work. I respect limits and safewords, and I expect honesty and openness in return. Think of it as a partnership—with a bit of a power imbalance, of course.

That imbalance? You’ll share yourself with me openly—your thoughts, desires, fears, and vulnerabilities. In return, I’ll decide how much of myself you get to know. It’s intentional, and it’s part of the dynamic.

A Bit About Me

In real life, I work in a demanding job with the occasional need to unwind. I’m calm, deliberate, and intentional in how I approach things. I don’t rush into connections—I prefer to build them thoughtfully.

I also want to be upfront: I’m ENM (ethically non-monogamous). I understand it’s not for everyone, but it’s important to me to approach relationships with honesty and openness about who I am.

In D/s, I’m all about creating a space where you feel safe, seen, and maybe even a little challenged. I like knowing that we’re both getting something meaningful out of the dynamic.

If you would message me

If you’re curious, open-minded, and think we could vibe, shoot me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what excites you. Bonus points if your first message has more effort than just “hi” (seriously, let’s aim higher).

We’ll take it one step at a time—no pressure, no rush. Let’s see where this could go.

P.S. If you’re someone who loves thoughtful conversations but also isn’t above a good meme, we’ll probably get along.

Generally BDSM tests should go in a bin but for the initiated maybe, heres the link to give a vague idea

https://bdsmtest.org/r/SGfDNnWR