Hey there, Let’s skip the fluff—I’m a Dominant with over 10 years of real-life experience, now diving into online dynamics. What I enjoy most isn’t just the kinks or the roles—it’s the connection. I want to understand you, figure out what makes you tick, and create something meaningful that goes beyond just surface-level exchanges.

What I’m Into I’m not big on rigid labels, but here’s what I enjoy (yes, the part you’ve been waiting for): Power Exchange (Who doesn’t like a bit of order in the chaos?) Mental Connection (Getting inside your head is my favorite kind of challenge) Humiliation & Objectification (When done consensually—it’s more about pushing limits than tearing down) CNC (Always built on trust and a mutual understanding—consent is key here) At the core, it’s not just about kinks; it’s about building something real and tailored to the connection we create.

What I’m Looking For I’m looking for someone who’s curious and willing to explore. You don’t need to have it all figured out—I’m happy to take the time to understand what submission means to you. Vulnerability is earned, not expected on day one. Let’s start slow and build something meaningful together. Since this is online, communication is everything. If you’re not up for talking, this probably won’t work. I respect limits and safewords, and I expect honesty and openness in return. Think of it as a partnership—with a bit of a power imbalance, of course.

A Bit About Me In real life, I balance a demanding job with the occasional need to unwind. I’m calm, deliberate, and intentional in how I approach things. I don’t rush into connections—I prefer to build them thoughtfully. In D/s, I’m all about creating a space where you feel safe, seen, and maybe even a little challenged. I like knowing that we’re both getting something meaningful out of the dynamic.

Why You Should Message Me If you’re curious, open-minded, and think we could vibe, shoot me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re looking for, and what excites you. Bonus points if your first message has more effort than just “hi” (seriously, let’s aim higher). We’ll take it one step at a time—no pressure, no rush. Let’s see where this could go.

P.S. If you’re someone who loves thoughtful conversations but also isn’t above a good meme, we’ll probably get along.

For the initiated, my bdsm test results might offer some insight, though ideally I would just chuck it in a bin.

https://bdsmtest.org/r/SGfDNnWR