Hello darling! I’m a 28F in Sweden, who haven’t had any luck locally. This is my fourth attempt at seeking a match through here. Thanks for stopping by; and I hope you can stick around for the lengthy post. Grab a cup of coffee or a cup of tea.🥹
I’m looking for a committed relationship dynamic that goes beyond the bedroom and integrates into daily life. I crave a dynamic where I’m nurtured, guided, and disciplined, not just in private but in every aspect of life. I want someone who can lead me with a firm hand and a warm heart, who sees me as a prized partner and not just a fantasy to be played out online. Due to the job I do, relocation is not an option for me.
What I’m NOT Looking For: I’m not interested in power switching, being a sidepiece, topping you, being your mistress, ageplay, specific fantasy roleplay, being a cuckqueen, extreme master-slave dynamics, or being molded into someone else. I value being treated as a cherished person, not an object. (Might seem obvious to most, but still important to emphasize).
Here’s a little about me: I’m a 5’2 (156 cm), on the chubbier side (wanting to slim down, but haven’t figured out the how yet) girly and bubbly extroverted princess. I’ve got a playful bratty side that comes out ever so often. Sometimes, my job demands a lot of determination and decision making from me, causing me to feel overwhelmed. We all have flaws, and mine is struggling to cope with stress. I spend most of my time working, and when I’m not I love cooking, shopping, long walks, movie night, wine and dine and spending time with my family and friends. I’m monogamous with no interest of poly-dynamic, have never been married, am child-free, employed, and I live alone in a small cottage on the country side. I work office hours.
We all have preferences, so here are some of mine. And no, I don’t expect you to check every one of these:
• Single, monogamous, childless (but open to kids and making a family within a near time-frame)
• Age 30-35
• Alpha personality
• Caucasian
• Employed
• No serious and unmedicated mental health issues
• Knows what you want from a dynamic
• Looking for something IRL and long-term
• Uses dominance responsibly, not as a guise for abuse or misogyny
• Treats me as a partner, not just a kink outlet
And as a thank you for reading this far, here are my broad kinks: • Wardrobe/Bathroom/Meal/Exercise/Orgasm control • Impact play, choking, hairpulling, spitting, primal play • DDLG, ropes/restraints • Praise, degradation, breeding, displays of ownership
Interests to Explore: CNC, masked scenarios
Hard Limits: Anal, blood/gore/vomit, rimming, pegging, extreme sadism, animals/furries, anything involving actual children, age play
Patience, understanding and respect are the holy trio in my mind. If you’re reading this wanting to reach out, please do. Let’s discover and grow together. I can’t wait to hear from you! 😌
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