Hello! I’m a 43-year-old daddy in Southern California, and I’m searching for my forever princess. I want to find a best friend, a partner, and a princess all in one. I’m established, have a great career, and have built a life I’m proud of. Now, I’d love to share it with someone who wants to build a real, lasting connection.  

I value honesty and stability and am looking for someone who has their life together. I am single and strictly monogamous, and I ask that you be the same; no one who’s in a relationship already, no couples, no poly, ENM, or other messy entanglements.  

I’m primarily into DDLG and a little bit of light pet play. I am definitely more on the “soft Dom” side; more about praise and calling you my “good girl” than lots of degradation and punishment. I’m drawn to the DDLG dynamic because of the trust, care, and emotional depth it brings. I want to be your loving and nurturing daddy during the day; someone you can lean on, who cherishes and protects you, makes sure you take your vitamins and drink enough water. But at night? That’s when I remind you of your place, my little princess. I crave that balance of sweetness and surrender, of adoration and discipline.  

I would prefer to discuss more specific kinks privately. If you have specific interests, I’m open-minded and love to explore. I do have limits that I refuse to cross and we can discuss those privately as well.

I prefer to keep most of the kink-related things confined to the bedroom, but overall, I love having this dynamic outside the bedroom too. It’s about creating a bond that blends intimacy, care, and passion in everyday life. I want to guide and nurture you, encourage healthy habits, and make you feel cherished. I’d love to pamper you with baths, brush your hair, and help you feel completely safe and cared for.  In return, I ask for your submission, trust, loyalty, and devotion. I am also not looking for a 24/7 TPE sort of thing; I value my princess’s opinion and want her input as well, even if she ultimately wants me to make the final decision. 

Outside of kink, I enjoy cooking, traveling when I can, and I’m a huge fan of all things sci-fi, fantasy, and gaming. LOTR, Marvel, Star Wars, GoT, WoW, FFXIV, Ark, Fallout, D&D, amongst others. I love to read and also am big on learning random trivia. It is important to me that my princess is also my best friend, so it would be amazing to have a partner who shares some of these interests… bonus points if we can game together! 

I am a tall guy (6’2”) with salt n pepper hair and hazel eyes and I have several tattoos (currently at 12). I have broad shoulders, a “V-shaped” physique coupled to a bit of a dadbod. I’m working on healthier habits and would happily encourage my princess to do the same. 

I’m not here to rush things; but I’m also not looking for penpals or something long-distance. I’m dating to find something serious and lasting that could lead to marriage. 

Thank you for reading my wall of text! If you’re tired of testing the waters with “vanilla” matches who don’t understand your needs, let’s connect!