Hey everybody!

My name is Phoebe and I’m posting here for the first time in ages looking to make connections with a potential partner!

I’m going to get this out of the way at the outset: No men. Sorry, I’m just not interested in domming, or being dommed by, a man.

So to make things easier, I’m going to split this post into four sections:

-About Me

-Me as a Domme

-Me as a sub

-About You and Messaging Instructions

About Me

As I said, my name is Phoebe, I’m a 25 year old trans woman who is right at the beginning of her transition. I’m out to most everybody in my life but I’m currently fighting the British healthcare system (not literally) to get myself some hormones.

That said, I am confident in who I am, I’ve learned to love myself and to appreciate what I am and what I have. I’m living down in England but I’m from Scotland (and I love my home!).

I have quite a wide range of interests but I really love reading, long walks, and movie nights with friends. I’m especially fond of horror media, but I really like all kinds of genres! I have two degrees and am currently contemplating a PhD but we’re gonna see what happens with that!

Me as a Domme

I have a reasonable amount of experience as both a Domme and a sub but generally more experience in the former role. I am not a particularly rough OR gentle Domme, I’d say I fall right in the middle. Generally, I am more than happy to embrace either side of that divide during play but I don’t tend to gravitate to extreme pain or humiliation.

When I’m a Domme, I exalt in my power. I want to bring my sub to a point at which they are bathing in my control, worshipping me in whatever ways I decree. I expect obedience and don’t tend to get along with brats all that well.

I’m quite fond of psychological play, using sensory aspects to try and lure my sub into surrendering more control to me. I’d quite like to try out hypno kink with the right sub.

Particular kinks:

-Bondage -Light/medium pain -Sensory deprivation -Mantras -Basic tasks -Clothing control -Forced positions (eg. Keeping you kneeling for extended periods of time)

Me as a Sub

In many ways, my interests here are a neat mirror of my interests as a domme. However, I tend to lean more towards the more intensive side of submission than I do when I’m a domme.

I’m really excited by the idea of any psychological play, especially combined with bondage (ranging from gentle to very restrictive bondage). Hypnosis is a kink of mine but really anything psychological that can be used to heighten my sense of submission.

As a sub I want to be reduced, to have my will and choice obliterated under your power. When I am submitting to you, I want my mind, my will, my understanding to become subsumed into yours. In the long run, it is that sense of pure submission I am craving, and anyone who can help me achieve that appeals to me.

Kinks:

-Bondage (medium-intensive) -Sensory play -Feet -Collars -Latex -Hypnosis -Oral -Hypnosis -Pain -Many many other things

As both a domme and a sub, I’m looking for someone I can enjoy hanging out with outside of kink, who I want to spend time with and get to know. So I’m going to finish with a bit about the person I’m looking for:

About You and Messaging Instructions

Basics:

-Woman -22-28 Age Range -UK-based

I am really attracted to people who have unique interests which they really like. Stuff that they want to talk about, stuff about which they’re passionate. I don’t like people who treat me like a kink dispenser, who don’t understand that I want to build up to kink and not just jump into it eyes closed.

You should be someone who is willing to get to know me and has a full life outside of me. That’s really the fundamental thing for me, that the people I talk to are full and interesting people beyond their kinks.

As such, when you message I would appreciate the following:

-Name -Age -Gender identity -Whether you’re looking for a domme or a sub -Some stuff about you outside of kink -Some stuff about your kink interests

I really do hope to hear from some people soon, I swear I’m not as scary as I sound! Do drop a chat if interested!