This is a fairly long ad (I’ve been working on it for a week and debating on posting it) so if you don't want to waste your time scrolling this is your warning now but if you're staying for now here you can have a cookie >🍪
Enjoooy! 💕
Hii, I'm Quinn! I'm 19 years old and I'm from Texas.
I'm looking for an online relationship. Eventually, I would like to meet in person, but with that comes time, commitment, and a lot of trust.
I'm 4’8 chubby albino african american with blonde curly hair and dark blue eyes.
As far as I know, I am a submissive leaning more toward the little category based on my personality as well as the kind of lifestyle I find interest in. I have no interest in being dominant, I may be a bit bratty though as I don't exactly like to be bossed around or told to do anything and everything without a good reason or if I don't want to (I’m fairly stubborn). Though I’m not quite sure where I belong in the community, I'll just go with my gut rather than the information I've taken in because I will not lie, I've been scared away very quickly from the things I've witnessed.
I like to stay in my own personal bubble and keep to myself, the communities I've joined (and quickly LEFT) on Reddit have been very provocative and a bit too extreme for my taste.
I will be as transparent as I can.
I'm looking for a daddy to take care of me and make me feel whole.
I’ve been single for a while and I am looking for a serious relationship rather than casual talk. I want to get to know my person and fall in love with their quirks and subtle things that make them themself. I don't want to start off the relationship too strong and I generally want to take time out of my day to build a bond with someone to determine if we click rather than not.
I fear I'm a bit hard to get a hold of and I can get scared off pretty easily by the way I'm being approached. I have a preference and sometimes that means that the likelihood of me wanting to continue the conversation is low, when it comes to my romantic interests I take them pretty seriously.
I want a 24/7 dynamic but I don't expect that to come automatically because from what I've come to realize is that some people are VERY committed to being fully submissive and while I can never picture myself being dominant I have not been able to fully trust someone with my mental and physical well being.
Don't wanna go into the dynamic immediately. It takes time to feel comfortable with a person and trust them with that side of myself so I will not be calling anyone daddy until I feel ready to do so. I feel the same with little space. I will not be referring to anyone as daddy or dada, papa, etc until the time is right.
It takes me a while to feel like becoming more intimate with someone so I may be thrown off by how open you are. Iwon't judge you for them but I do question a lot of things and I'm pretty hyper-focused when it comes to topics I like so please don't be alarmed if I ask you a lot of questions randomly (even though when put on the spot for 21 questions I completely suck) believe it's more of an at the moment kind of feeling. If I find you interesting or enjoy talking to you or feel I may be able to keep things going between us I get a bit chatty and clingy.
I am 1000% sure that I will not engage in any NSFW conversation, setting, or scene. I have been exposed to enough this week to know that I am not comfortable being in that kind of situation with anyone and that's not how I start any kind of relationship generally.
Cookie >🍪
I do prefer to speak through voice but I get shy around new people so I may be a lot quieter than expected. I hear that I have a different personality than what I do through text when it comes to voice but I can understand what they mean. I basically lose all of my cognitive thinking skills and become a deer in headlights and it's probably something I won't grow out of any time soon when talking to new people haha… 😴
But I guess that's also why it's good to try to put yourself out there even if I'm a bit awkward and as long as everything is okay all is well and I'll live wooo! (I’m a complete wuss)
I am not employed and I am not in school (definitely planning to participate in both of these things but I am currently doing neither.)
Oh right with cookies come milk 🥛
I will not be sending any photos of myself (My body, my face, etc.) as I am not comfortable doing so either, I'm not a social media person and I understand that some people may like to save the memories through pictures or videos. I personally have never felt the need to do so and will not be sending anything unless I feel comfortable meaning if you ask me to send a picture of myself I'm probably not going to even acknowledge the question because I'm trying to make it clear now that if I feel comfortable I would be the one to ask to send a photo or anything else for that matter. That being said, I am not here for you to exploit or to fulfill your sexual desires.
In some ways, physical attraction plays a big part in relationships so I can fully understand if that steers you away, and if so that is probably for the best and this ad is not for you. I'm sorry that my boundaries aren't something you can accept but my safety and comfort will always come first before any kind of relationship romantically or platonically. (I can't blame you for wanting to know if your partner is even conventionally attractive so nonetheless the less I'm rooting for you good luck!) I would hope that everyone else feels the same way because your comfort and safety are also a top priority and everything else should be secondary
I don't drink or smoke and I don't plan on doing so in the future (I've learned my lesson the hard way, that stuff is gross..)
I’m also a homebody
I am not a part of the ABDL community. Yes, I do have a ddlg kink and lifestyle preference but I am a lot more subtle and I'm not sure where I stand. (Not to say that I have a problem with anyone in the community, whatever makes you feel happy and your true authentic self go for it!) I will not be participating in any poly relationship I can say truthfully I get jealous easily and would be pretty upset if I have to share my person.
I do have anxiety and that does take over a lot of my life and how I go about certain things hence why I'm pretty cautious about online safety that may sound really weird from a teenager but I've been pretty sheltered and I kinda wanna keep it that way cus i like my wholesome safe and quiet happy place.
I have a hard time attaching myself to people due to life events and I'm not quick to go into romantic relations so if you aren't looking for a slow and steady relationship I'm not the one for you and I do hope you find your person that's not to say they aren't out there that just means I'm not them but good luck!
I don’t really have any typing quirks (that I know of) when in little space I know a lot of people on the subreddits do however I do not the only thing you may see me do is type with a bit of misspelling because of the pace or maybe because I don't feel like typing in full sentences but hey maybe I'm wrong and I just don't know it yet. I haven't been in little space in months, almost a year and I'm starting to think that I've lost my ability to let go of everything and be at peace with my surroundings. I want to be able to feel safe and protected without having to take responsibility for myself and that's why I think I enjoy the dom sub dynamic along with the daddy dom little girl lifestyle even though I'm not as little as the others I think I still count.
Little or middle (I think both, I can be a baby sometimes) I feel like both most if not all of the time, and kinda just enjoy being the way that I am for the most part.
No more cookies for you you had two already! Here >🍊🍟🍔🥤
Now time for my favorite part!
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✨HOBBIES✨ (≧∇≦)/
Okkk I really like art, it's one of my favorite hobbies and one of the few things I've been active in since I was a literal toddler and I love it so much. I haven't drawn in a while because I've been going through a deep depression and it's been messing with my willingness to get up and actually do things. I think of ideas all the time and I never know how to force myself to go and actually make what's in my head a reality. I hope I can eventually get back into the drawing scene I really miss looking at my creations. I lost a lot of data and that is also what's making it harder because it's as if I forgot how to use a pen and paper. (I mainly draw digitally.) I call a lot of things art for example obviously drawing but crafting too! I love to make jewelry and accessories for my outfits or my hair and it's so fun making old things that kinda just sit and mope in my closet into something new and cute. I like problem-solving and being efficient so that life can be easier and crafting is also how I do that!
I love baking and cooking (I generally love food even though I'm a picky eater) and making things for my family especially! I enjoy watching them eat my creations and doing acts of service for them as a way to express my love. I’m still learning but for the time I've spent practicing, I really do like to be in the kitchen and use it as my own personal laboratory.
I do skate every once and a while but it's really cold outside right now so it's kinda difficult because I wanna stay inside most of the time.
I play a lot of games (they may not be mainstream but they're still games) I only have Nintendo consoles haha but I love playing Mario games and Kirby too! I like to play Roblox and Minecraft with my friends and I would prefer to be able to play those games with my future partner, I'm not very good at them but I still find them fun to play and bonding with people is also a part of the gaming experience for me.
Inserting a neverending (that's a lie) list of games here.
New super mario bros wii u Super Mario 3d world Super miro wonder Mario Party 9 Mario Party 10 Super Mario party Mario party superstars Mario kart 8 Slime rancher Slime rancher 2 Minecraft bedrock edition Roblox Kirby forgotten land Kirby return to dreamland Kirby star allies
Hmmm, I don't know if there's anything else I could add to this.
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I like sweets and that's probably why I'm chubby now but to be fair having a sweet tooth has never been a genuine problem for me and my weight stays somewhat the same.
My favorite color is pink.
I like to watch a lot of cartoons or old shows something I've been binging currently is Moesha and the Parkers (I can't watch one without the other) and old Disney movies with really pretty animation (because currently me and Disney are beefing and I refuse to watch the new movies)
I hate Barbie.
I LOVE Lilo and Stitch and it's one of my favorite movies.
Ok yeah I'm tired my fingers hurt and I woke up at 11 pm and it is now currently 6:36 am (I spent most of my time making sure that I typed everything I could think of down)
I'm going back to bed.
I have a busy week ahead of me so I wo not be able to check my messages at all for the next few days but I hope to hear from some of you and if not that's okay toooo
ヾ( ̄▽ ̄) Bye~Bye~
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