I don't know how to start this ad, really. All I'm trying to say is that at the deepest of who I am, there's a person who knows what things are supposed to be, and has feelings to make up for the difference between those ideals and what reality actually is.
That sounds awfully whiny, "Oh no, I'm so idealistic, but the world is so mean and rough out there, woe is me," but the point is that I'm rather cool about it. Meaning, I have those ideals, and I can have the feelings to respond to things when they don't align, or god forbid, try to actually reconcile those differences, but more often than not, me expressing doesn't make a difference. Dominating and being forceful is also bad, because people don't like that. Getting upset about it is worse than accepting it. That's sad, that no one really wants to be deep, because that connection is still something I crave.
So, I come here, to BDSMpersonals, to look for a partner who's just as inclined to need depth as I do, but needs that by being submissive. Meaning, I have a been to be in charge of the relationship, but do it with lots of depth and insight, while you would need to be the opposite: submissive and receptive.
That's it. Anything else is basically just window dressing or details that shouldn't matter. My kinks, safe words or what to specifically do in a dynamic is all irrelevant if the basis, a deep and committed connection, can't happen.
So, if you're more on the deep side of things, send me a message, and we could possibly see if we can have a dynamic.
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