Hello! I’m a passionate, adventurous, and submissive Black woman from the Seattle area, looking to build something real and lasting with someone who values deep connections. I’m all about quality over quantity, so if you’re seeking a meaningful, long-term relationship, we’re already on the same page. I’m not in a hurry, though—I’m interested in taking the time to truly get to know someone and develop a connection based on trust, respect, and shared values.

At 5’2", I may be on the smaller side, but I have a big heart and a lot of energy to put into the right relationship. Physical appearance isn’t a huge priority for me, but I do appreciate someone who stays active and enjoys movement, whether that’s through sports, hiking, or just a healthy lifestyle. I’m also drawn to people who are passionate about something—whether I fully understand it or not, I admire enthusiasm and drive.

When it comes to dynamics, I lean more toward the “Daddy” type, though I wouldn’t consider myself a “little.” I’d describe myself as a middle who thrives in a nurturing, supportive environment. That balance of care and authority is what initially drew me to this community—I want a relationship where both partners can grow and flourish in their own ways. I’m nowhere near perfect, there’s a lot of things I want to work on for myself and I need a partner who is excited about helping shape me into the best version of myself.

Looking ahead, my long-term goal is to create a stable, loving life with a partner who shares my vision for the future. One of my dreams is to be a stay-at-home mom, and I would love to meet someone who shares that vision and is open to building a family together. That said, I have very high standards when it comes to childbirth and child rearing. If having biological children is a priority for you, that’s something you’ll need to earn with me through mutual trust, understanding, and a shared commitment to our future. I want to create an environment where we both feel aligned in our approach to family life, so this is a conversation I take seriously. In terms of relationship dynamics, I’m drawn to a more traditional, 1950s-inspired model with a modern twist—TPE. I’m a bit of a high achiever so high protocol Doms to the front of the line! I do have a lot of kinks though and would do just about anything for the man that puts a ring on it.

A few things to know upfront: 1. I’m very left-leaning (feminist, LGBT-affirming, etc.), so if you tend to “see both sides” on political or social issues, we might not align on core values. 2. I have ADHD, and while I’m not currently on medication, I actively work to manage it. I need a partner who’s understanding and patient with the challenges that come with it. 3. I smoke weed—not daily, but it’s something that helps me unwind and relax. It’s not a dealbreaker if you don’t partake, but I’d appreciate someone who’s comfortable with it. 4. I have some family responsibilities that I’ll need to prioritize in the coming years. It’s a complicated, stressful situation, but it’s something that’s very important to me, and I need a partner who can be supportive during that time.

I’m looking to connect with someone in the Seattle area, but I’m open to long-distance relationships as well. Relocating is also something I’d consider depending on the person and situation.

If you’re someone who values a thoughtful, intentional relationship based on mutual respect, trust, and a shared vision for the future, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see where this journey can take us.