Hi there,
I’m a 40-year-old submissive looking for a Soft Dom (or possibly a Daddy) to build a meaningful, online-only connection. I’m married and in a strictly vanilla relationship without intimacy. I’m not looking to change anyone’s real-life situation—just seeking a connection with someone who values trust, communication, and emotional safety.
Here’s a bit about me:
I’m naturally submissive, curious, and eager to learn. While I’m quite inexperienced, I’m excited to grow under the guidance of a patient and kind Dom.
I’m monogamous by nature, even in an online dynamic, and I’m looking for a single, meaningful connection.
I can be shy and insecure, so I value someone who can provide reassurance and create a safe space for me to open up.
Kinks and dynamics I’m curious about:
- D/s dynamics with a focus on kindness and consistency.
- Light bondage (I’m 100% a rope bunny) and orgasm control (edging, denial, or forced).
- Wardrobe control, especially involving lingerie, and mild exhibitionism.
- Sensation play and playful exploration—nothing extreme, but I’m open to trying new things within my comfort zone.
What I’m looking for:
An experienced Soft Dom or Daddy who enjoys long-term dynamics.
Someone who can balance real life with kink, understanding that sometimes priorities outside of the dynamic take precedence.
A Dom who values communication and is open to incorporating mutual kinks into our connection.
If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Please include your favorite way to take your coffee in your reply to show that you’ve read my post (mine’s a latte, in case you’re wondering). Looking forward to connecting with the right person!
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