About Me

Hello! 30M recently moved to the Denver area. Physically, I am 5'11" ~190 lbs. Brown hair with a well trimmed beard. Happy to send a SFW photo upon request (no face initially).

Deal breaker for some so I'll include it early - I'm in law enforcement, but am left-leaning and don't really fall into any stereotypes surrounding that. Prior to that, I was a software engineer for multiple years.

Vanilla Hobbies

• Spring/summer outdoors stuff / fitness (hiking, soccer, running, lifting, etc)

• Home automation, home tech stuff, general tech stuff

• Cooking, whether for someone or just for myself and taking pictures

• Video games (Pokemon/Nintendo stuff, cozy games, pretty much anything multiplayer with you or with friends)

• Fiction/fantasy/sci-fi books (currently reading Wind and Truth)

• Long form documentaries / video essays / podcasts about pretty much anything

NSFW Stuff

I'm new to exploring my submissive side and have filled a more dominant role with past partners, but have found my submissive side much more fulfilling.

Kinks include, but aren't limited to:

• Power exchange/tasks & punishments

• Humiliation

• Spankings (OTK especially) / domestic discipline

• Orgasm control/denial, JOI/guided masturbation

• Free use & body worship

• Rope bondage

• Light watersports

Limits:

• Findom / tributes / whatever you want to call any exchange of money

• Blackmail

• Scat

• Marks/piercings

• Fire/electricity

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for something long term. Local to the Denver area obviously is a huge plus, but online is no problem so long as your intention is to meet in person when we're comfortable with eachother.

If you're looking to jump right in to setting up a dynamic within the first 24 hours, I'm not right for you. If we connect well on a human level, we'll definitely connect well sexually later on. Personally, I need to have a solid friendship with and respect for a person before I'll thrive giving them control over various aspects of my life.

As far as domme type/style, I think that a demanding, firm, but nurturing woman would suit me best. Tell me you know best and boss me around, I will melt in your hands.