Obviously, most come here seeking a partner but I think more than anything, I’m seeking safety. I’ll admit I’m a fairly guarded person. My previous experiences in the bdsm world have not improved that mentality. I’m fairly jaded when looking for a connection. I can admit that fault. However, my strength is in my resilience and intuition. Thankfully both have saved me many times from investing too much into the wrong man. And so here I begin my search again to find the man who edits my faults, starting with my outer protective walls and ending in inner soul and heart.

Deep down I’m very loyal, devoted, empathetic, and a bit sassy. I’m introverted naturally and not the most social. But with those important to me I am their biggest cheerleader and anchor in their life.

Ideally, I would love to find a man who is willing to start at the basics with me. Let’s get to know each other. Let’s establish a playful, flirty connection. Let’s not put labels or promises or timelines on anything yet. Let’s just be two people. Chatting. Let’s see where things lead us. I don’t have any outcome in mind beyond finding the right man I can call my Daddy.

I can’t make any promises until I know I’m safe with you.

Feeling safe takes time, patience, effort, and understanding.

I’m a thinker, I’m always in my head, and I move slow. I need experience and assistance to fully understand my potential as a submissive and my place in the bdsm world.

If you’re down for the challenge and see something within me, please reach out - let’s make a connection strong enough it feels like the stars just aligned.

Please feel free to browse my previous posts for more descriptors of what I’m seeking.

Kinks: grooming, age gaps, sapiosexuality, orgasm control and denial, TPE, free use, tasks, degradation/humiliation, psychological bdsm, teasing, misogyny, mind games, power dynamics, ddlg, emotional masochism, gender roles

Limits: blood, scat, animals, heavy abuse