Howdy! I'm GPR, and I'm a longtime sub with lots of love and service to give. I've spent happy years in a Female Led Relationship, and while I'm returning to the dating scene after the unceremonious end and requisite processing of an FLR, I'm still comfortable with (attached to, even) the idea of serving one woman faithfully as a natural extension of our romance. I know full well that these things don't happen overnight, that trust and rapport are funny little things that grow most quickly between a couple while they're not looking; it's just important that the person to whom I devote that time wants to aim for the same goal.

So what is The Goal?

Appropriating some gamer parlance for a moment, I want to be Her support class. As a big ol' work-from-home softie who sets his own hours, I can literally be waiting for Her with dinner on the table at the end of the day. I can be there waiting to take Her bags, rub Her shoulders, or just greet Her with the biggest hug and gentlest kiss the moment She walks through the door. After dinner, maybe some pampering, or cozy hangout time, or maybe something a little more intimate, where She gets off exactly how She likes.

Sure, I have my own kinks that generally align with a gentle-yet-possessive FLR, and I'd appreciate the opportunity to work them in, but the greatest sources of pleasure in my sex life BY FAR are Her pleasure and praise. This isn't theory, friends. This isn't one-handed typing. This is lived experience and core truth.

If the above is something you'd like to explore with the security of a committed and experienced sub, I invite you to read on about... Well, me. The person who comes along with the idea.

A quick note on location: For family medical reasons, I need to live in the Detroit area for the foreseeable future. As happy as I am to accommodate on most fronts, moving outside Michigan is not currently an option. That being the case, and Online-to-IRL arrangement would mean you eventually move here barring a radical change in my situation.

I'm a nerdy creative by day, a kinky aceflux (95% allo, 5% aego) by night, and a chubby, neurodivergent, romantic cuddle monster 'round the clock.

Here's what I look like, in all my big, beardiful glory.

Vanilla me runs tabletop RPGs like Dungeons & Dragons for a living, helping players to tell stories of their characters slaying dragons and saving nations (and maybe working out some of their personal baggage along the way). Before that, I worked in the music industry, which at least had the decency to chew me up and spit me out in time to start my own business before Covid.

For those who might relate, I'm also one of many travelers on the journey from religious "purity" and repression to self-acceptance.

While I've opted not to include a grocery list of kinks in this listing, limits are an essential part of any D/s dynamic. Mine include:

-Moderate to severe pain
-Moderate to severe bondage
-Bodily harm
-Breathplay
-Sounding
-Scat
-Vomit
-Diapers
-Anything at all that blurs or complicates consent (Yes, there's baggage. No, it's not for this forum.)

On a final note...

To my One, wherever She is... I can't wait to meet You.