Hi there!

I am 25 yo Dom/switch, and I am looking for a submissive or switch counterpart for a D/s dynamic, but also for knowing each other out of kink and having a connection.

I am from Italy. I am looking for something online, which maybe can escalate IRL (if we really click and the distance permits that). What I am exactly looking for could be:

• a play partner
• a friend (or more if things evolve and conditions are favourable)
• a sub, a slave, a cute thing to take care of and torment
• someone to have a nice chat with

What I can be for you instead is:

• a play partner
• a friend (or more if things evolve and conditions are favourable)
• a Dom [or a fellow switch, if this appeals to you]
• one to have nice chats with and talk about kinky stuff, interesting nerdy topics, deep stuff or just life

About me (in brief)

• I am 25 yo and I am from Italy
• In my daily life I work, I recently graduated and right now I am pursuing my career. I invest a lot in that because I like what I do. I would consider myself ambitious
• I am nearly 1.80m tall, neither slim neither chubby body type (I keep myself in decent shape, even if I am not a sport & fitness person), dark blonde/brown hair, blue eyes. I usually like to present myself well dressed and clean
• I could be described as a mental person and as an introvert who is highly driven by my own energy peaks. To strangers I often appear formal and a bit detached. Once you know me (and I trust you) I may (slowly) introduce you to my own world, made by the things I like, my thoughts and many salty jokes. If you know what it means, tests say I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously).
• I have a bunch of interests I like to cultivate mainly by myself. Many of them would fit in what some may call "nerdy stuff" (not necessarily in the stereotypical sense, but more in the sense that it's stuff I tend to to deep dive into)
• The things I love the most are moments for myself and deep talks. Not much a fun of loud places and people who do too much pointless small talk
• I would say I am one that generally looks for connections, even if I am not traditionally affective and I tend to open up very gradually

About me (kinkly)

Kinkly, I am a switch and my "natural attitude" is the Dominant, even if sometimes I can and I like being the opposite. As you can see in this profile I have other posts as submissive, but if you are reading this right now it means I am looking for something as a Dominant. If you are 100% submissive, don't worry, you will not see my submissive part. If you are a switch as well, amazing.

About my attitude: I have mixed opinions on which is my actual attitude as a Dominant. Someone says I am caring and gentle, someone instead says I am sadistic and harsh. I genuinely think both are true, because I switch attitude according to my mood and I like to be both, also at the same time. What I am sure it's:

• I like a the mental aspects of submission, and I like the idea of fucking your mind before fucking your holes
• I am an attentive person which loves to learn about you and use that knowledge for causing both pleasure and pain
• I am somewhat caring and even if I am detached by nature I will worry about you and your well being
• I like to tease and cause mixed feelings, possibly in creative and a bit sadistic ways

Kinkwise:

• I like orgasm control, tease and denial and in general using your own pleasure and neediness against you
• I like to inflict pain in various ways from the classical spanking/hit play, to the most complicate creative ways my twisted mind chooses to invent. I like to leave small cute marks ( <3 )
• I like setting up rules, routines, giving tasks, punishments and rewards, etc. Essentially, I like to make you do small acts that reminds you about your submissive status
• I like subtle humiliation, especially when mixed with praising (I will love to tell you "good girl" and whatever variant of this)
• I like setting up scenes, somewhat like I am a movie director

Limits: extreme pain, blood, permanent damage, body liquids (except spit and cum), extreme pet play, age regression, heavy CNC, privacy, blackmail, interfering with private life, sending pictures that may compromise privacy, text only (to establish and maintain trust I would like we could prove each other we exist, we are real and we are not just a wall of text).

This is in brief what I like kinkwise, I didn't entered too much into all details and practices, but I think you got my mood :)

What I am looking for (and what could I offer)

As I said in my intro, I am looking for a submissive (or switch) counterpart to connect with, have nice talks, have sex chats, maybe setup a Dom-sub dynamic and - maybe maybe - meet IRL if we really click and the distance permits us.

A Note: In the introduction I have on purpose mentioned being a play partner and a friend and not something else (long term partner) because I think if we met up online, especially in this context, is better to start with low expectations. Then things may evolve, but I would not like to push too early, especially if we are far away from each other and we are online only.

About you: ideally,

• Your age is between 20-30, better if close to mine (which is 25)
• You are preferably located in Europe, even better if in Italy or close to it
• You are a person who has your own life sort out, better if you are doing something you are fierce about (it can be study, a job you like, a project, a passion, etc. I guess this will help connect with me). If you are somewhat ambitious it will help
• You are a person open to dialogue, who likes to talk, listen, discuss, share ideas and go beyond the superficial small talk
• You are a submissive or a switch with a submissive side that now needs attention

(Note: all those are just "ideal" things, they are not a checklist and regardless of how many boxes are "checked" what matters to me is the person as a whole. The only real hard requirement is you are on or above legal age for mine and your country and you don't pretend to be someone else)

a few final (more or less serious) bonus points to choose me and not another one among the 1000

• I like to dress shapely and be "on poin", so you may often get pics of a properly dressed Dominant
• Since I am a bit of a nerd and I have my pool of interest I deep dive in, once we know a bit you will receive from me many nice random facts you may not be aware about
• my mind is a powerful tool and I like to use it for evil
• I am a person who loves introspection and deep dialogues, so we can have nice conversations that are not just about kink

If you reached here, thank you! I am happy I caught your attention. If you want to go further and know me, I will wait for a your Dm here on Reddit (I may not answer immediately because of time zones and job, but I will reply you as soon as possible). Hope to hear from you!