Where to start!? I have so many thoughts about what I’m looking for!:)

A bit about my self first I guess. I’m 49 as you have seen from the headline.(apparently I look more like like late 30’s - early 40’s I’m being told. So maybe good genes?) I’m not from Germany but have lived here for the last 3 1/2 years or so. Still haven’t learned the language! (I know, I know!😁) Originally from Scandinavia, but have lived a bit all over the place. Currently on my fourth country and second continent. (Technically back to my first continent I guess!?) Appearance wise, I guess I can best be described as a cross between stocky, muscular and dadbod? Let’s see what the gym can do about that going forward. 175 tall, shaved head and brown eyes. Happy to share both pictures and my main account if we start talking.

Personality wise I’m pretty easy going and low maintenance. I love my job, but I also love coming home from work. Love photography, with favorite subjects being people and action sports. Especially candid street portraits I enjoy. I absolutely love all animals, but dogs in particular. U fortunately I lost mine to cancer a while back, but I’ll get a new one eventually! I travel a lot for work, but also for pleasure when I feel like it. When I do, I tend to pick a place and then see what happens. I don’t necessarily plan to much. I do prefer warm places by the ocean though! Making München not exactly the best place for me at the moment!😁

What about you? I ha e found through the years that I don’t have a specific type or look that I go for. It’s more down to chemistry. How we gel together. You can be sweet and innocent looking, or edgy as hell with a shaved head. Or anything in between. This part doesn’t really matter that much. I do like women who are not afraid to be feminine though. And someone that likes the person they are! Someone that likes trying new things. Both in daily life and sexually. And someone I would be proud to be with and introduce to my friends. So you tell me who you are!

Kink wise, I am Dominant. I do not switch. But you would be more than welcome to try and take control… Brats are fun! That’s not a requirement though!:) Exactly how this part would look, I can’t say! To me, this is something g that depends on the person I am with. I am very open minded and happy to try almost anything at least twice. Exploring together is the most fun. So whether you are experienced or new to this and feel you need mentoring. We will be able to find common ground!

I do have hard limits, as I expect you to have as well. Mine are anything illegal. This includes of course anyone underage. Anything involving animals, blood and scat. And anything that would or could cause physical and/or permanent damage.

I will also not play with anyone that says or think they have no limits. Nor will I play without established safewords and safety gestures.

Aftercare is important for me. And it does not stop once you leave. Expect me to be checking in on you over the next couple of days to make sure you are alright. And I expect you to reach out if you need it as well!

What about the type of relationship?

I don’t know to be honest. This would as well depend on you and what you are looking for. How we get along. And how our dynamic develops organically as we get to know each other.

It could be just play partners. Occasionally or regularly. (Preferably not ONS though!) It could be experimental on your side! If you have fantasies you would like to try out with someone your trust (once we get that far!)

It could be FWB, with emphasis on friends. Go out together, or stay in together. Make some good food (I’m pretty damn good at Italian food! Just sayin!!!😁) watch a move and hang out. It doesn’t always have to be sexual!

Or it could lead to something more! Did it mention how it all comes down to our chemistry together?😁 I will say this though. You’ll have to love dogs if it is going to develop in that direction. Because I will be getting a new dog in the next few years!:)

Lastly, I mentioned I travel a lot. So while I’m ideally looking for someone in or around Munich. I’m not going to rule out someone from other places in Europe either. Or even further away. My schedule so far for the year includes Toronto, Singapore, Las Vegas, LA, Frankfurt and more to come.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you. I put some effort into this, so I do expect at the very least a proper introduction and some effort from you. Just writing “Hi” and then expecting me to cary the conversation is not going to work out. It would bore me very quickly. Engagement, passion and enthusiasm is hot!

Tell me what makes you happy!:)

T

(Yes, I know there are some silly typos and autocorrects in the post! The app won’t let me put the cursor anywhere else than the bottom of the post, so I can’t actually fix it! So don’t @ me!😂 Or do… and it might come back to haunt you later on!😈)

PS. I’m in no rush. So let’s take as much time as we both feel we need to get to know each other. Once we are ready, a first meetup would of course be somewhere public and low pressure. With no commitment or o ligation on either part to take it further afterwards.