hi again :)

A month ago, I posted about feeling frustrated and looking for a Dom.
(Context) I was recently introduced to the D/s dynamic by my Finnish Dom daddy, and things were going so well (though maybe he was just love-bombing me). I was really starting to feel ready to fully submit to him, but then he just... got busier. I felt so neglected and ignored. I tried to talk to him about it, but he wouldn’t really tell me what was going on. I kept trying to hang on, but eventually, he stopped even starting conversations. It was supposed to be an exclusive dynamic, split between online and real life, but that kind of faded. So, I messaged him again, asking if he still wanted to continue training me... and he told me he met someone new and wants to see where it goes. It hurts, but I guess I'm just grateful for the experience and for discovering this side of me. It’s like I found a whole new version of myself, even if it didn’t turn out how I hoped. 😌

After my first post, I connected with a Dd online, which seemed like a good way to move forward. However, I realized that I rushed things a bit, especially without properly closing things with my first Dom, and the long distance was tough. So now, I’m back, hoping to find someone closer who can guide me and help me really experience what it’s like to please my Dom irl. :)

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I'm an asian woman currently living in Finland, 33, 157cm, weight is 48kg, introverted, and i don't usually go out but i am easy to be with. as per my appearance i can say i am pretty cute 🙈 I really like being told what to do and i am good at following instructions. I am very new to this so if you are interested in training me just hit me up. I enjoy wearing a collar or whatever you ask me to wear, and I’m into spanking (but not other kinds of pain YET, maybe i could be trained for that and i am willing to learn anything 😌)

I’m not into just online stuff, but I’m open to starting there. Ideally, you’re in Finland or nearby and open to meeting or even traveling for me? Don’t worry, I’d be happy to travel for you too 😌. Trust is important, so I’d need a face pic for verification. Physical attraction is heavy on me, so I’m hoping for that spark, but i don't mean 10/10. decent looking guy with complete set of teeth and complete extremities? 🤭

AND SOMEONE WHO COMMUNICATES WELL AND WON'T ABANDON ME.

ohh additional: i don't have many experiences with men so if you're willing to adopt a noob one 🙋🏻‍♀️