39M in Boston here. 6'0" 150, safe/sane/snipped, decades in kink. Queer-positive leftist, easy on the eyes, high marks on communication and general decency. Experienced with ENM/poly, single and looking for a compatible play partner/FWB (emphasis on F) to start, down for a relationship if that's where things go. Vanilla interests include reading, writing, crafting, games, and biking around the city.
I'm a service/pleasure dom. Since exploring the internet at a tender age, my core kink was always pussy stretching - toys, hands, objects, you name it (anal I can take or leave if my partner's not into it). Other kinks include impact, bondage, humiliation/degradation on whatever wavelength, orgasm control/denial, exhibition, pumping, medplay, and machines. Love giving head, big into teasing, cuddling, foreplay, and aftercare.
As far as motivation, I've seen it played different ways from a sub's perspective:
Craving the overwhelming sensation of being full
Chasing the challenge of the next big milestone
Relishing the degradation of becoming 'loose'
It's all great, no favorites alone or in combination, dark and depraved can be as fun as light and playful. But for any of it to be ethical and hot, the sub's drive should be genuine, and the stronger the better. So if you're near Boston, and you've ever found yourself terribly preoccupied with seeing just how stretched and full you could be, perhaps even against your better judgement... I look forward to hearing from you.
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