Hey,

TL;DR: ENM Part sadist, part pleasure-dom looking for kinky friends to chat and play with occasionally.

So far as BDSM is concerned, I'm a mixture of sadist and pleasure dom. I and my current sub are ENM, but I'm NOT looking for another sub. I'm also not interested in immediate sexting/hookups, etc. I'm looking for kinky, sex positive friends, preferably for longer term connections, but short term connections are fine too. I'd love to chat with you whether you're curious about kink or have a lot of experience. Also happy to chat with dommes about how they play with their subs. We can talk about experiences, fantasies, logistics (oh my, this is really getting kinky, huh?). If we share kinks and get along, I'd be open to playing together occasionally. Brats are welcome too.

My biggest kinks are impact play (hands/floggers/paddles), orgasm control (forced/denial) and praise/humiliation. Essentially, I like controlling my partner during a scene and giving them as much pleasure or pain as I want. Forced edging and orgasm torture are my favorite things to do! I prefer the traffic light system for consent and safewords.

I respect your privacy and anonymity and expect likewise. This is primarily a personal ad for online chatting, with no expectation of ever meeting in person, although I'm open to that if we really get along. I usually respond regularly with a few paragraphs at a time, but at times I will be very slow to respond because of work and other life things.

If any of this piqued your interest, please reach out to me via message or chat. In your message, please mention your ASL (location can be vague, just a rough time zone helps), a little about yourself, your kinks/limits. Also include your favourite drink in your message, just so I know you read my post. It's less likely as a guy, but low-effort replies are never fun. As a conversation starter, please tell me some experience or fantasy my post made you think of.

Hope to hear from you soon!