Mainly searching for a friend I can flirt with, spend time with, and game with! I'd ultimately want to eventually meet in person, especially if things go well, and am open to more beyond friendship if it feels right. Someone to be the black cat witchy GF to my Golden Retriever/German Shepherd personality. I am not currently in the Midwest, but will likely be moving to the general area within the next year or two. And maybe do crimes together? (For legal reasons, this is a joke.)
I also would want a partner who is comfortable with letting me have control in their life. To let me dress them and play with them however I wish. A sweet soul who enjoys pain and letting me mix pleasure and pain. Someone who's okay with some degradation.
For some main kinks of mine to check compatibility: anal, breath play, pet play, master/slave dynamics, DDLG. Impact play, sensory play, orgasm control. Primal play, CNC, free use. Breeding (the act, not the pregnancy). Bondage/shibari. Also darker/more extreme kinks that can be discussed.
Hard limits: scat, firearms, children, animals, hard drugs, permanent harm (receiving/inflicting).
I am US based, but open to those beyond US borders, though with the understanding that it will be difficult, and would still like the time difference to be manageable (or if you're a nocturnal European, for example). I am fiercely loyal, protective, and (consensually) extremely possessive of my partner and what belongs to me.
I am not skinny, nor particularly tall, but I'm working on it. I'm 5'8", half Korean, and very much bearish in physicality. I lift heavy and am strong, but have a more dad bod/power lifter physique. I just enjoy food more than I like having a six pack haha, but I understand that that's not for everyone. Further, I have dark brown curly hair, grey blue eyes, a full beard, and have been told I have a lovely voice. Happy to provide pics and a voice note on request.
I enjoy time with my partner, whether that be gaming together, or even parallel play. I enjoy being on the phone, sending voice notes, and want someone I can communicate daily with. I also ask that you communicate openly and honestly, about what you like and don't like, especially if it's something I've done or said. I understand life gets busy, I just ask that you keep me in the loop.
I am looking for someone who tends to fit the more goth/alt aesthetic, it's my preference, but not a requirement. As unfair as it might sound, being a bigger guy, I tend to prefer slimmer women. But that doesn't mean I don't like thick or curvy women either. Just a preference. Height doesn't matter to me, and I would prefer someone younger than me, at least 21 if possible.Â
To summarize, I am looking for someone who is alt/goth, and wants to be my babygirl, my best friend, and who desires companionship and friendship outside of the kink. Someone who wants to be taken care of and nurtured, but also used like a sexdoll. I hope to hear from you lovely people if this interests you or if you feel you fit the description.
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